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Ms. Pauley Belle will have a birthday soon. I won't say what date, except to say I need to march forth and celebrate it. I will celebrate with gifts and tributes, of course. Mistress Pauley will celebrate with me as she wishes.
Usually, I visit her in person near her birthday but this year, in the covid 19 era, that is not feasible. Maybe next year, sigh. I say near her birthday as the actual day is celebrated with her friends and family.
As for celebration details, I am writing this befor...
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that is the question.
I rarely if ever ask Mistress Pauley for anything. On one hand, it would be disrespectful as I am a sub and I should always give and always think only of giving to Mistress. But also if I were to describe a particular video or photo and she produced it, it would not be the same as one she did on her own.
But then I know that Mistress Pauley rarely if ever makes demands. Could it be that she does not make demands for a similar reason? That is, if she demanded a particu...
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In this holy time of year when we gift each other to show our generosity and holiday spirit, I am motivated to write about my deity, Ms. Pauley Belle or, to me, Mistress Pauley.
After being her slave for 7 plus years, she has slowly become my personal deity. Her Holy Will is supreme. Her wishes are what are important, not my own. As I continue to serve her, my worship of her deepens. I crave more enslavement to her but all happens on Mistress Pauley's good time. In fact much of the deepening ...
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In the old days, powerful empires would conquer smaller states. The conquered states would be allowed to live in peace but they were required to pay tribute to the conquering empire.
Nom we have findom and one of the first things I learned many years ago is that the cash payments to dommes are called "tributes." When you see the sub as a conquered territory and the domme as an all powerful empire builder, this makes perfect sense. Of course, the domme continually works on the sub to extract m...
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Back in March when the the joke was about people who had stopped drinking Corona beer as they thought it had to do with the coronavirus, the stock market dropped and I had to withdraw from my usual level of sacrifice to Ms. Pauley Belle. We settled on a reduced level of spending that was to end with the end of 2020.
Now, as far as credit card statements go, the December due statement is closed out. As of today, the next statement closes in December and is not due until January 2021, so that w...
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Yes, time for all of us subs to ratchet up the spoiling! But this year, with coronavirus, economic downturn and people buying online so much, we can expect slower delivery of gifts. So please remember to order early so your domme will have her gifts as she likes them.
Now, some dommes do not care if all the gifts arrive by the holiday. In my case, Mistress Pauley said if she wants a gift quickly, she flags it as "Highest Priority." Otherwise, she is not concerned if holiday gifts arrive in ti...
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I should contact Ms. Pauley Belle every day but I am ashamed to say I do not. So I developed language in my slave contract to make sure I do that.
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Slave will contact Mistress daily through email or chat. Tributes, gifts, blog posts and the like do not count but covering emails will.
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I occasionally get messages and friend requests from dommes although my profile, header page, icon, and so forth are clear on my status, Owned!
For brand new dommes, I can chalk it up to inexperience. Perhaps they are not familiar with domme etiquette. And maybe the message will sink in as a new domme has her subs approached by other dommes.
For the few experienced dommes that approach me, they know better or should know better. I will leave it up to our hostesses if they should be banned...
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Happy seventh anniversary, Mistress Pauley aka Ms Pauley Belle. It was seven years ago today that I first approached you in Message here at findoms.com. I usually post short messages as I like to come to the point and have the attention span of a gnat. But my message to you went on and on and I realized I was saying a lot, for me. Later I realized I was hooked in that I HAD TO have more. I sent you a gift and we were off to the races.
I still have to have more but now that means more for you....
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I hope I am not "over thinking" my training under Mistress Pauley, aka Ms Pauley Belle. But I do like to talk about it as I see it happening. I would never speculate what is on Mistress Pauley's mind. My job is to respond to signals she sends me and only she can judge if I am doing the right thing.
I was going to say that each time I send tributes or gifts, my training proceeds. But that is not exactly it. Rather, it seems that as I continue to spend, my enslavement to Mistress Pauley builds ...
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I have been thinking lately about the proper way to approach Mistress Pauley's Wish Lists. She has many Wish Lists grouped as she pleases. She sets Highest priority for those things she expects before others are purchased. She has one list she expects to be kept clean as she wants those items now. She also adds items she knows I see as fetish items; purses, anyone?
After being her slave for 7 years, I feel I should approach her Wish Lists with the idea of maximizing her pleasure foremost in m...
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