Topic: subs

People find pleasure in worship for a variety of reasons. These reasons can vary based on the individual. Below are common reasons why submissives find pleasure in worship. Spiritual Connection: Worship provides a sense of spiritual connection to a higher power or divine being. Many find pleasure in the idea of being part of something greater than themselves. They desire to experience a connection with the divine. ...

It's important to approach any relationship, including those with power dynamics like dominance and submission, with mutual respect and consent. There needs to be a mutually agreed-upon power dynamic. The submissive should enjoy expressing appreciation through gift-giving. It is essential that both partners feel comfortable and fulfilled in the relationship. Here are some reasons why someone in a submissive role should choose to give gifts to me: Expressing Devotion: Gift-giving can be a way ...

The latest to add to my holidays, like there aren't enough scammers, spammers, and time waters out there... A "Domme" on Fetlife decided to POACH my sub.... then harrass me... She posted about me calling me a "fake" and trying to defame my name... ...

Subs stare at me like they have never seen a walking goddess before 🙄✨SHOW me your gratitude instead of using meaningless fucking words.✨ Good morning tributes are better than good morning texts, losers. 😈💸💸

Id post in the introduction page but I can't. So im scarlett im not here to play games and im not here to give out info so we can just chat im here to drain you im here to be funded im here to fulfill your kink. Im here for femdom im here because I deserve to be treated at the highest level. You respect me you worship me. We chat as friends after you show me your worth. This is not a negotiation dont ask me how much just send ask me for my payment method. It should be "hello goddess I hope my tr...

Men are hunters by nature. Allow the quarry to come to you.   Have content they can stalk. Lead them down the trail with blogs. Lure them in with pictures. ...

People have certain expectations. A new Domme might be completely new to the kink or how online submission works. Perhaps, they saw a video or heard from another person how easy it is to get money from a submissive. When that doesn't happen immediately, they might throw up their hands and in frustration write something on like "subs are all time-wasters". Let me be clear. The only person that can waste your time, is you. Dommes are strong and independent. We are the masters of ourselves. We dete...

afindommesdiary.com A Tribute A Day Keeps The Timewasters Away? Any Findomme has probably received many DM's from submissives wanting to talk, yet not wanting to tribute first. They might say 'oh I have been scammed before so I just want to chat first.' or they might not say anything at all and they will just keep talking. However, when you see these 'submissives' they almost always expect verification from a Findomme. Most Findommes offer various forms of verification. However, why can th...

   Back in the day, of old school online BDSM chatroom, there were certain rules of etiquette. These rules helped establish roles and beginning training. Unfortunately, some of these have become quite relaxed in use.     The use of capital and lower case when addressing someone or your own name/pronouns indicated the role of submissive or Dominant. A Domme would never use a lower case "i" to refer to their self, that lower case indicates submission. Nor would their names be lower case. ...

"Why is he here if he is owned?" is something I was asked about my owned sub. I have a few reasons for allowing my submissive to remain on this website. 1. They can answer questions, other subs may have, about me.  Those prospective subs may be too shy to ask me but might approach my sub. Yes, subs do talk amongst themselves.  ...

Loyalty means so much to me. It is an important characteristic of any relationship, whether BDSM or vanilla. Seems few understand the meaning. Fealty should be given for a relationship to flourish and grow.  loy·al·ty /ˈloiəltē/ noun the quality of being loyal. a strong feeling of support or allegiance. ...

You know why you're here. You know that your place in this world is below your Superiors, serving, to worship, to do everything you can to please your Goddess. You're not a real man- and you accept it. The real challenge for subs (especially new ones) Is taking the leap and approaching a domme. Whats the right way? What do i say? Don't be scared to interact with a Domme. We don't bite, and we want to see if there's a good connection just as you do. What's the point without it? You come acro...

Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...

Hey Everyone!! I wanted to kinda just talk or post about this since it's been on my mind for awhile. So i've been into Femdom about 10 years and Findom about 8 years (on and off). I came back very recently full time and it's very different. I've been trying to stretch my little Findomme wings and have been severly kink shamed. It's crazy because I have always felt very welcome in the fet community but not lately. I am very grateful for this site because I feel very welcome among people who un...

After a very long week and month.  Because Mercury finally is straight (yes I'm a DOMME who likes astrology and astronomy) the better way to unwind is to play with some subs.    ...

I have become convinced that everyone falls somewhere on what I call a Dominance/submission continuum. Most of society falls close to the middle while those of us in the M/s and D/s communities are outliers falling closer to the Dominance or submissive ends of the spectrum. Despite this reality, our society teaches all of its males that they are "are kings" and need not submit to anyone. This teaching is reinforced by family, schools, churches and other organizations with which we deal with on a...

Sometimes, it's hard to imagine that a Domme can have actual emotion and empathy deep down in their sadistic twisted hearts. But... We do. Findommes are so often painted as money-hungry whores. So very few know the true meaning and the exhilaration for the parties involved. When you're not involved in it, it's easy to look into our looking glass and think we are heartless and cruel. But... We care. We gain emotional attachments to our subs. We care about your lives at home and work, the fa...

For long term devotion, serve a Domme whose beauty, dominance and values shine both inside & out. If your admiration of Her is only at the surface level, your servitude will remain surface-level too. Find something I can train you, but I wont waste my time. I can care about you, but break a rule Il replace youI can humiliate you, but I'll always remember aftercare, I can rinse you, drain you, having you sending till you cant,  but I wont leave you with nothing. This is what it's like to be min...

This fantasy, is more than a fantasy but a way of life only few findom submissives can handle. giving up the ultimate control. As ith most lifestyles this is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate taboo I have done this with two of my submissives. I control how they licmve their lives day by day. What they eat, when to sleep. I'm in complete cont...

1.) You want to escape into the role of someone without so much control. 2.) You need to be given structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled. 3.) You need to have someone to take care of you and be valuable to another. 4.) To be owned makes you feel safe and free. 5.) Having a Dom in your life who is willing to push your boundaries makes you grow as a person. ...

Time to step up your game subs. Adding extras in for your Domme is always desired. There are many ways to save money, so you have extra for her. It is a good idea for subs to look at their spending and see what can be eliminated or narrowed down. I am a believer in getting good quality when shopping. Things that last might cost a bit more at first, but last longer than cheaply made items. Not everything you buy needs to be the best quality. Look to see what needs to last long term and what ...

Some guys need to come to terms with the fact that.. YOU. ARE. NOT. SUBMISSIVE. ...