It's always been a dream of mine to be in a long term female led relationship. As a lifestyle Domme, I can't have a "normal" dating life. Regular vanilla dating isn't anything that interests me. I know the life I lead and I know what is compatible and not compatible with my life. A regular vanilla relationship wouldn't work for me because I can't see myself submitting to someone I'm dating. Financial Domination is the ultimate power exhange for me because think about it, most people spend their ...

Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...

?????????? Frequently Asked Questions                   As a Domme I feel like it is important to help out other Dommes that are truly serious and trying to learn. Which in my opinion is an extremely valuable tool to have as a Domme trying to come into her own. Knowledge truly is power and Findom is a power exchange. In this blog post I want to give the more established Dommes an opportunity to share some of thier knowledge. I am going to write out some of the frequently asked questinos th...

These are some thoughts I have had from conversations with Miss Dakota & others.  Not attempting to tell anyone what or how to do things, it’s just my thoughts.     ...

I have taken the time to list all of the frequent questions that I keep getting. I am doing this because it is getting time-consuming to answer all of the same questions over and over again. Also, it makes it easier for you as a sub/slave to chose me if you wish to serve. The questions are here. The answers are on my website and I will link you to it at the end. Feel free to comment with any more questions you may have and I will update it all only my website. I am doing it this way because it s...

After a very long week and month.  Because Mercury finally is straight (yes I'm a DOMME who likes astrology and astronomy) the better way to unwind is to play with some subs.    ...

I have an app for throwing dices. There can be up to 6. (Note : this game will require a deposit to start). It's basically a send-request game mixed with gambling. There are several ways to play, the total quantity will be the money I'll request. Let's set an example. We're playing with two dices, the first one shows a 3 and the second a 6 -Digits : the value of the first dice x10 and the second one x1. Result, 36 -Addition : 3 + 6 = 9. Result, 9 -Multiplication : 3x6 = 18. Result, 18 ...

In an earlier blog (Discovering More ) I wrote a little about the Chastity Device I acquired after Miss Dakota added it to my Amazon list.  I was going to write “at Her suggestion” but then I thought “at Her instruction” was more appropriate but now I don’t really which it was!   I think this is part of the genius of Miss Dakota.  She makes  things seem like a suggestion but they somehow carries the force of an instruction.  Or maybe that’s just my insatiable desire to please Her.   Anyway...

I have been wanting to write more regularly on here and I thought this might be a perfect way to kick things off. I wanted to write something as a bit of a reflection on my experience thus far exploring findom. So I was (and to some degree) still am pretty intimidated overall. I do my best to swallow that fear and use it as motivation to educate myself. To take things slowly and on my terms. Read & research first and act afterwards. I've spent a lot of time just reading & watching the few vid...

I just have some random thoughts and observations :) Humiliation - Findom seem to attract subs strongly into humiliation.  Why is that?  I don’t have the answer.  All I can say is that I am not remotely into being humiliated.  To me, findom is about handing over power to a Goddess in the form of financial tributes and gifts.  I don’t find that at all humiliating.  Pleasing Goddess is all that matters to me, making Her smile and making Her feel happy and powerful.   While I understand many g...

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See my dear I refuse to be like so many other Dommes that we see all over the internet and frankly I am just a sick of it as the other subs who have come to me before. So today I issue a challenge to any UNOWNED sub looking to be owned and would like to be considered by me. Send me a message being honest about what sets you apart from all the other subs who will take part in this challenge. Here are some questions to answer if you need help. ...