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by on November 14, 2018
The Hunt vs The Wait.. This is a struggle I know all too well in the 17 years of dominating. As a dominant, there is a strong need to hunt down what I want like the prey they truly are. The need to stalk my prey, to get to know them from a distance before I pounce and make them mine. This method works in a crowded room. When you lock eyes with the right sub and you watch and their body language locks them in place. The confusion of fight or flight and then the complete surrender. This is the ...
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by on November 13, 2018
A D/s relationship is quite an intricate thing. It stems from trust. So many little things are involved that often escapes our mind. We usually tend to focus on the highs that we are about to achieve. Sadly, too often, we focus on, "What am I getting out of this?" and not, "What am I giving and/or offering in this relationship?" I am a very emotionally invested Domme. That's no secret. I've had exactly 2 subs who were fleetingly short-term and I will never have that again. When I take on a...
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by on November 12, 2018
(This blog may be shocking to some of you.  I apologize in advance  :)  Also no criticism or judgment is intended of any other member who may enjoy some of the things I will be writing about.)   If you have read my previous blogs, you will know that I am lucky enough to have the awesome Miss Dakota as my Goddess.  She does not do Cam sessions and I am absolutely fine with that. ...
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by on November 12, 2018
Sometimes, it's hard to imagine that a Domme can have actual emotion and empathy deep down in their sadistic twisted hearts. But... We do. Findommes are so often painted as money-hungry whores. So very few know the true meaning and the exhilaration for the parties involved. When you're not involved in it, it's easy to look into our looking glass and think we are heartless and cruel. But... We care. We gain emotional attachments to our subs. We care about your lives at home and work, the fa...
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by on November 3, 2018
I have to say that since I've started Findom I have had one loyal sub and honestly, I'm worried that there won't be another like him. We can talk about any and everything, joke, confide in each other, but he still understands the power dynamic. He never crosses any lines and always stays obedient. The subs that I have been coming across now-a-days aren't really subs, they're self-serving subs. And I do not tolerate a sub that only sends when he wants to get a nut off. That's not genuine servitud...
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by on October 27, 2018
If you are a finsub or switch with an actual brain, have a conversation with me. I have no interest in the mindless ones. There are enough hungry instas here to feed your dick in hand needs. I want men/women who actually know what servitude is. Ones with a brain that can actually add to the life of thier Mistress. Someone whos conversation can flow freely from kink into non kink conversation. And for Pete’s sake someone who is not bloody boring! ...
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by on October 26, 2018
A Financial Dominatrix is general is a (usually female) domme who men get a sexual release from giving them money and getting insulted by them. As a Lifestyle Financial Dominatrix, I offer financial advice to ensure that they do not waste all their money on the kink. I also discuss limits before I session. I will also only play safe sane and consensually. To build something our conversation must flow in and out of kink with ease. Just understand that with kink a price is to be paid. Keep mann...
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by on October 22, 2018
It’s been two weeks since I wrote my first blog post “Under Her Consideration” and I thought I would write about developments since then.   Miss Dakota continues to surprise and amaze me.  For my part, I feel I am falling more under Her influence every day and I love that feeling.  I adore Her more than I can express in words and She is increasingly dominating everything I think about.  One of the many things I love about Her is that every day there is communication with Her, no matter how...
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by on October 22, 2018
We are all human so we all make mistakes. I have snapped on a slave before that didn't need it just because he caught me in the wrong mood and openly apologized for it. I have also had subs be completely selfish and I have called him out on it. To me this is who I am. I tell you how I feel regardless. I have found that they become selfish when I fail to meet their needs. It could be that I have faltered. Maybe I told them I would so something. Instead of asking if I had changed my mind or got...
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by on October 22, 2018
Ok so Ive been thinking about this topic for awhile now and I want to see what everyone thinks? I see alot in the FinDom world Dommes having Alphas that are their boyfriends. I can see and totally understand that, but I wonder has any Domme thought of having a sub as a bf or husband? To be quite honest, I have always wanted to marry a sub. I would want to wake up and be served faithfully everyday from beginning to the end of my day. I'm hella into cuckolding too so of course I'd be able to do as...
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by on October 20, 2018
I'm the kind of woman who always gets what she wants. I expect my men to be either alphamales, well-endowed, and successful, or chaste, generous, and dedicated. Hearing the word "no" is something I'm rarely ever told, being a woman of power. A woman of delectable looks. A woman of superior intellect. Men like you deserve to be kept on edge, struggling as much as I see fit yet thriving to succeed solely for my benefit, locked in a cage, and cuckolded as I offer myself intimately to a man leagues ...
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by on October 15, 2018
For as long as I can remember I have had submissive fantasies and desires.  That’s a long time    I steered clear of Findom for a while.  It seemed kind of scary and not my thing so I thought.  I’m still not entirely sure it is my thing even now yet here I am.  A member of findoms for 3 years and currently very happily Under Consideration to a fabulous FinDom Goddess, Miss Dakota. ...
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