Topic: bdsm

A favorite memory of a session was one from a vacation with one of my subs. A long weekend which included a concert, tours of museums, and an evening at a BDSM club we had heard of. I know, I look nice and perhaps even sweet. Do not let looks fool you. That evening I kept my look low-key. We had dinner plans early and would not be able to return to the hotel prior to our reserved time at the club.  I wore a simple black pantsuit, wearing the jacket as a top, and my usual boots. Nothing that s...

Early evening. Airport. Arrival. Sunshine through the windows turns everything into a goldish lightning. And there she comes, walking straight ahead to you. Her appearance let everything around her slowing down and getting blurry. Her style; sexy, classy and bossy at the same time. You can see the demand in her eyes as they intensely going deep through every vein of you, making you feel like you´re see-through. You can feel the words “Hand me the key – you are mine now!” with a shiver down your ...

Hello to you little thing I wish you welcome in my universe 100 % French of pure stock. I will be happy to show you my world and my lifestyle. I've been in this world for eight years now and I can't live without it. Men are made to serve us and make our life so easy. It's as simple as that, when the mistress needs to snap her fingers and whistle, you'll come back with your bank card in your mouth.  ...

2022 is the year of the Black-Water Tiger. She is fierce. She is bold. She is strong. She enacts changes she wants with the patience and planning of a predator and executes them with the confidence that her power gives her. Like everyone, I’m experiencing the jarring reality of going into 2022 with all the same fears of 2020, but I’m determined to make the most of it. There are many new beginnings for Me, and I’ve already got My first 2 findom blackmail fetish contracts of the year! New Fe...

After much thought on the subject, I don't believe that it is even possible to have a true female-led relationship if money does not exchange hands.  Men have always used money as a tool to control women. Whether it is by politicians designating women as the property of husbands and fathers, unable to own their own valuable resources, or by the abusive husband using money as leverage to make his wife stay, this is just a fact.  It is incredibly important to correct this imbalance to achiev...

Cocks in steel cages with keys thrown in trashes Strap-ons that stretch my sub’s lips and their asses  Credits to my account going “ka-ching”  These are a few of my favorite things.  ...

So I've launched a new Podcast about Sexuality, BDSM and Fetish!   The best part is I'm taking your questions! Want to ask me a question? Maybe you'll end up on my Podcast! ...

Do you know what some of the more import abbreviations in BDSM mean? BDSM is Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism. Bondage- sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. the state of being a slave. Dominance- power and influence over others. ...

A TickTock video does not miraculously turn you into a Domme, nor does a YouTube video. It takes lots of training. I am currently taking Shabari classes. The reason I am learning from a seasoned instructor, versus just watching videos online or reading a book, I want to make sure I learn how to play properly. I want to know what can cause pleasure, pain, and damage. I want to tie safely. Safety is the reason you should seek proper training. There are so many aspects in a dominant scenario t...

So, I've been thinking a lot recently about some areas of contention between Dommes. Those little disagreements about what's "proper," or what makes someone a "real Domme," or which way we "should" portray ourselves. My intention with this blog isn't to stir up controversy, but rather, to have a discussion about some of these things.   I'm sure we've all seen it. "A real Domme wouldn't do X. A Domme worth her salt wouldn't wear Y. Dommes have to do Z." ...

Full blog & free clip available on My website! Click Here Now! Difficulties… Remember when I was like, “2020 is gonna be My year!”? Well, things haven’t quite started out according to plan… First, I was sick for New Years and was really worried that I wouldn’t be able to make it to My planned tattoo appointment on the 7th. Luckily, I was feeling better by the 6th, but when I messaged doughboy to schedule our cash meet so that he could pay Me for the tattoo, he was feeling sick. he still go...

I recently started a poll on #findom twitter asking others opinions on "loving" your Dom or sub. I was surprised to see the difference in responses for that poll. One of the responses was "falling in love is setting yourself up for heartbreak" ...

*Do not assume. Ask questions. Negotiate play and play consensually. Remember Safe, Sane, Consensual at all times.   *Do not touch someone's property or person without permission. Consent, consent, consent ...

   I am getting ready for the convention, DomCon, beginning next month in LA. Not sure subs realize all that entails. The cost and time involved in the planning are more than some assume. How to travel, staying at convention hotel or elsewhere, clothing/necessities, so many choices.     I have not been west of New Orleans, so decided to take a road trip and see more of this country. This adds in gasoline, more hotels, food expenses. Have been planning to see areas of interest on the way to ...

A recent blog post got me thinking about something that is entirely important here within our community. Actions. The actions of the dominant and the actions of the submissive. I'll start be prefacing the actions of a dominant. To summarize the recent blog I read, basically be your own woman. Your actions will dictate the type of sub you want, and attract. So if youre all about tributes and less about the lifestyle, you'll attract those that only want that. Finding what you want and then acting ...

I’m contemplating new streams of revenue and am looking for someone interested in investing a certain amount of money in stocks or funds that pay high dividend yields and then transfer those yields over to me every month.  I think this would be quite lucrative for me.   Additionally, I’m looking for Uber drivers who are willing to provide me their earnings, either daily or if you can’t afford that, then maybe one or two days earnings per week.  I’m also looking for someone who will go get ...

I have become convinced that everyone falls somewhere on what I call a Dominance/submission continuum. Most of society falls close to the middle while those of us in the M/s and D/s communities are outliers falling closer to the Dominance or submissive ends of the spectrum. Despite this reality, our society teaches all of its males that they are "are kings" and need not submit to anyone. This teaching is reinforced by family, schools, churches and other organizations with which we deal with on a...

For long term devotion, serve a Domme whose beauty, dominance and values shine both inside & out. If your admiration of Her is only at the surface level, your servitude will remain surface-level too. Find something I can train you, but I wont waste my time. I can care about you, but break a rule Il replace youI can humiliate you, but I'll always remember aftercare, I can rinse you, drain you, having you sending till you cant,  but I wont leave you with nothing. This is what it's like to be min...

This fantasy, is more than a fantasy but a way of life only few findom submissives can handle. giving up the ultimate control. As ith most lifestyles this is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate taboo I have done this with two of my submissives. I control how they licmve their lives day by day. What they eat, when to sleep. I'm in complete cont...

1.) You want to escape into the role of someone without so much control. 2.) You need to be given structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled. 3.) You need to have someone to take care of you and be valuable to another. 4.) To be owned makes you feel safe and free. 5.) Having a Dom in your life who is willing to push your boundaries makes you grow as a person. ...

Hi There Maybe it's Me But Since I have been a Lifestyle and Professional Domnatrix for over 28 Years Now It seems that I love getting New Callers and meeting New people whether I'm Traveling to other states etc.. Nothing I find more funny is that recently I have been getting alot of calls on My Niteflirt PSO Listings...which is good but... But that is not the funny part, The funny part is Most of these guys who are like the age of 21 and up and they call Me expecting Me to want to take them ...