A favorite memory of a session was one from a vacation with one of my subs. A long weekend which included a concert, tours of museums, and an evening at a BDSM club we had heard of. I know, I look nice and perhaps even sweet. Do not let looks fool you. That evening I kept my look low-key. We had dinner plans early and would not be able to return to the hotel prior to our reserved time at the club.  I wore a simple black pantsuit, wearing the jacket as a top, and my usual boots. Nothing that s...

Early evening. Airport. Arrival. Sunshine through the windows turns everything into a goldish lightning. And there she comes, walking straight ahead to you. Her appearance let everything around her slowing down and getting blurry. Her style; sexy, classy and bossy at the same time. You can see the demand in her eyes as they intensely going deep through every vein of you, making you feel like you´re see-through. You can feel the words “Hand me the key – you are mine now!” with a shiver down your ...

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2022 is the year of the Black-Water Tiger. She is fierce. She is bold. She is strong. She enacts changes she wants with the patience and planning of a predator and executes them with the confidence that her power gives her. Like everyone, I’m experiencing the jarring reality of going into 2022 with all the same fears of 2020, but I’m determined to make the most of it. There are many new beginnings for Me, and I’ve already got My first 2 findom blackmail fetish contracts of the year! New Fe...

After much thought on the subject, I don't believe that it is even possible to have a true female-led relationship if money does not exchange hands.  Men have always used money as a tool to control women. Whether it is by politicians designating women as the property of husbands and fathers, unable to own their own valuable resources, or by the abusive husband using money as leverage to make his wife stay, this is just a fact.  It is incredibly important to correct this imbalance to achiev...

Cocks in steel cages with keys thrown in trashes Strap-ons that stretch my sub’s lips and their asses  Credits to my account going “ka-ching”  These are a few of my favorite things.  ...

So I've launched a new Podcast about Sexuality, BDSM and Fetish!   The best part is I'm taking your questions! Want to ask me a question? Maybe you'll end up on my Podcast! ...

Do you know what some of the more import abbreviations in BDSM mean? BDSM is Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism. Bondage- sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. the state of being a slave. Dominance- power and influence over others. ...

A TickTock video does not miraculously turn you into a Domme, nor does a YouTube video. It takes lots of training. I am currently taking Shabari classes. The reason I am learning from a seasoned instructor, versus just watching videos online or reading a book, I want to make sure I learn how to play properly. I want to know what can cause pleasure, pain, and damage. I want to tie safely. Safety is the reason you should seek proper training. There are so many aspects in a dominant scenario t...

So, I've been thinking a lot recently about some areas of contention between Dommes. Those little disagreements about what's "proper," or what makes someone a "real Domme," or which way we "should" portray ourselves. My intention with this blog isn't to stir up controversy, but rather, to have a discussion about some of these things.   I'm sure we've all seen it. "A real Domme wouldn't do X. A Domme worth her salt wouldn't wear Y. Dommes have to do Z." ...

Full blog & free clip available on My website! Click Here Now! Difficulties… Remember when I was like, “2020 is gonna be My year!”? Well, things haven’t quite started out according to plan… First, I was sick for New Years and was really worried that I wouldn’t be able to make it to My planned tattoo appointment on the 7th. Luckily, I was feeling better by the 6th, but when I messaged doughboy to schedule our cash meet so that he could pay Me for the tattoo, he was feeling sick. he still go...

I recently started a poll on #findom twitter asking others opinions on "loving" your Dom or sub. I was surprised to see the difference in responses for that poll. One of the responses was "falling in love is setting yourself up for heartbreak" ...