*Do not assume. Ask questions. Negotiate play and play consensually. Remember Safe, Sane, Consensual at all times.   *Do not touch someone's property or person without permission. Consent, consent, consent ...

   I am getting ready for the convention, DomCon, beginning next month in LA. Not sure subs realize all that entails. The cost and time involved in the planning are more than some assume. How to travel, staying at convention hotel or elsewhere, clothing/necessities, so many choices.     I have not been west of New Orleans, so decided to take a road trip and see more of this country. This adds in gasoline, more hotels, food expenses. Have been planning to see areas of interest on the way to ...

A recent blog post got me thinking about something that is entirely important here within our community. Actions. The actions of the dominant and the actions of the submissive. I'll start be prefacing the actions of a dominant. To summarize the recent blog I read, basically be your own woman. Your actions will dictate the type of sub you want, and attract. So if youre all about tributes and less about the lifestyle, you'll attract those that only want that. Finding what you want and then acting ...

I’m contemplating new streams of revenue and am looking for someone interested in investing a certain amount of money in stocks or funds that pay high dividend yields and then transfer those yields over to me every month.  I think this would be quite lucrative for me.   Additionally, I’m looking for Uber drivers who are willing to provide me their earnings, either daily or if you can’t afford that, then maybe one or two days earnings per week.  I’m also looking for someone who will go get ...

I have become convinced that everyone falls somewhere on what I call a Dominance/submission continuum. Most of society falls close to the middle while those of us in the M/s and D/s communities are outliers falling closer to the Dominance or submissive ends of the spectrum. Despite this reality, our society teaches all of its males that they are "are kings" and need not submit to anyone. This teaching is reinforced by family, schools, churches and other organizations with which we deal with on a...

For long term devotion, serve a Domme whose beauty, dominance and values shine both inside & out. If your admiration of Her is only at the surface level, your servitude will remain surface-level too. Find something I can train you, but I wont waste my time. I can care about you, but break a rule Il replace youI can humiliate you, but I'll always remember aftercare, I can rinse you, drain you, having you sending till you cant,  but I wont leave you with nothing. This is what it's like to be min...

This fantasy, is more than a fantasy but a way of life only few findom submissives can handle. giving up the ultimate control. As ith most lifestyles this is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate taboo I have done this with two of my submissives. I control how they licmve their lives day by day. What they eat, when to sleep. I'm in complete cont...

1.) You want to escape into the role of someone without so much control. 2.) You need to be given structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled. 3.) You need to have someone to take care of you and be valuable to another. 4.) To be owned makes you feel safe and free. 5.) Having a Dom in your life who is willing to push your boundaries makes you grow as a person. ...

Hi There Maybe it's Me But Since I have been a Lifestyle and Professional Domnatrix for over 28 Years Now It seems that I love getting New Callers and meeting New people whether I'm Traveling to other states etc.. Nothing I find more funny is that recently I have been getting alot of calls on My Niteflirt PSO Listings...which is good but... But that is not the funny part, The funny part is Most of these guys who are like the age of 21 and up and they call Me expecting Me to want to take them ...