Let me explain something really clearly. There are two people in this world. 1- Hand me everything. 2- Hard workers. ...

When all that blood rushes down all logic, straight thinking and common sense goes with it! There is nothing wrong with getting excited and aroused, it is natural  when you are talking to or around powerful women but you have to think with your brain and not allow yourself to be so easily led by your little friend  But why? Because as I said above all logic and so on go out the window and you can't think clearly which leads to mistakes and stupid decisions  ...

I have been wanting to write a blog for quite some time now just somewhere to put all my thoughts and feelings in one place. I'm sure I won't get everything I wish to say within this blog so possibly, hopefully, expect more to come. I have been doing a lot of reflecting lately probably because of the time I have to do this now. Reflecting on many aspects of my life including that of findom. I remember first entering this "world" seeing all these beautiful dommes and goddesses and thinking ...

 Ghosting is pretty much inevitable and something that appears to be happening frequently, but why? Guilt, this I think is a common reason for ghosting and is felt for various reasons, this could be anything from the amount sent, to sending in the first place or it could be because a sub feels guilt for doing it to begin with, I have had subs tell me before it almost feels like cheating Getting caught up in it all, it is easy to get carried away especially when you feel excited, I think it...

Many boys are seeking to serve Me, and it’s always asked what is expected of them. A fair question, but I’ve written it out a billion times by now to each and every boy that has come along, so I’m going to make a post to cover it once and for all. Have a positive and eager attitude to serve. Do everything I say, without fuss and without whining. “No” should not be in your vocabulary! If we are in a cam session and you are told to do something, too long of a hesitation will also be seen a...

The fetish and life style we all enjoy can really play a number on your psyche. This goes for Dommes and subs alike. We all know the ratio of men to Women is not equal. Certain boys who like to flitter from one to the next, well, theyve created a sort of reaction from most Dommes. In my case? I whole heartedly expect a submissive to tribute, wank, disappear. It may not happen in that order, but that is certainly the expectation. A word used to describe that emotion? Jaded. I've become jaded in m...

Honesty is always the best policy!  Start by being honest with yourself, think about what you truly want, what you desire, what you enjoy, what is a turn off, think about your limits and so on Subs be honest and realistic about what you can offer a Domme, be honest about the tributes you can send, don't make promises you can't keep just because you think it sounds impressive  ...

I decided to write this blog as I have been thinking about just how freeing it must feel for subs to open up and be who they finally always wanted to be  Sometimes you feel pressured to confrom to a certain standard or maybe you feel like you don't quite fit it in,maybe you worry about not liking vanilla stuff  Kink and fetish is still taboo for some, I have had subs approach me worried I will think they are odd because they enjoy feet,I am very open minded and not much shocks me anymore, ...

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Many a mangy mongrel loose and roaming the mean streets; near-starved, unkept, and uncared for--they haven't known a good thing for a while! Such an existence can break a weak-spirited pup, leading him into a literal 'dog-eat-dog' mentality where he, eventually, trusts no one and may even be inclined to bite a feeding hand. You can quick-fix his contaminations and update vaccines, but if his temperament has been infected, You may find You've wasted time trying to rehab a mutt that will run again...