I wanted to cover a couple of things in this blog I have mentioned numerous times that you don't have to be rich to participate in findom but I also said money is subjective so the term "rich" means different things to different people  The point I am getting at here leads me onto something I want to cover in this blog which is the affordability of findom ...

Having been in the scene for 30 yrs I can look back on things that happened in the world..    and the more im seeing its looking like the financial 2008 crisis was nothing compared to how this virus is going to be on a global scale and economy.  ...

Everyone has them and it is important to know them! I have had men who are shocked by the fact that I have limits as a Domme,well of course I do! Not everything is for everyone,I am not going to bypass my own morals or dislikes for any amount of money,if I truly don't enjoy something then no amount of money will change that and it certainly  would not make me enjoy it! It is important to set your boundaries and know what limits you have and you need to be firm about them,if as a sub you ar...

CLICK HERE FOR STEP 1 OF THE 12 STEP PROGRAM! I've had so many pay puppets come to Me and tell Me how much their life is ruined by their addiction to financial domination. And it's more than just debt, My pets... If you let this fetish get a hold of you, if you REALLY let it get out of control, you can lose everything... Friends, family, loved ones, everything is at risk when you're a true findom addict. It's no different than drugs or gambling addictions. It takes over your life completely, ...

Happy Valentine's Day, pets! It's time for some sexy updates. And these are EXTRA big updates too... New Piercing ...

On my last post I wrote about not so nice things. But this blog is going to be about possitivity. I've never thought that findom would helped me both with my online interactions and in real life.   In the past I worked as a webcammer so I was used to time wasters, scammers, etc. But the dynamics about those things are different on findom. I've learnt to see, with just two words, when someone is willing to submiss and tribute; and also a lot of ways that people use to scam: "I'll pay you 50...

I've started my way as a financial dominatrix only 5 months ago, but in these 5 months I have learnt a lot of things.   I remember my first days here, talking with a potential sub (he ghosted, of course) and the second time that I asked for a tribute he said: "But why do you want to punish me? I haven't do anything bad". That was the point in which I realize that a lot of "subs" aren't subs or they have no clue about the meaning of being a financial submissive. I was shocked, thinking "Why...

Hey there, Findoms! Been a while. Far too long, actually, and I've been antsy, all caught up in RL business without time to play. But I've been thinking about My relationship with men, and how findom/being a Domme in general has helped Me sort out My feelings in regards to the opposite sex.   I'm a bisexual woman. I don't make it a secret. If you object to that, we have nothing to say to each other, because I'm confident in My identity, and I know there are plenty of subs out there who und...

Many new Dommes complain about “timewasters”. Now I’ve already shared My opinion on that term, nobody wastes My time because I don’t give them the opportunity to do so. What helps with this is knowing the “tricks” that many men will use to milk time with you without paying a cent. If you get a message from one of these types, chances are very high that you aren’t going to be paid for your interaction with them, should you choose to interact with them in the first place.  “Miss, here are some ...

Full blog & free clip available on My website! Click Here Now! Difficulties… Remember when I was like, “2020 is gonna be My year!”? Well, things haven’t quite started out according to plan… First, I was sick for New Years and was really worried that I wouldn’t be able to make it to My planned tattoo appointment on the 7th. Luckily, I was feeling better by the 6th, but when I messaged doughboy to schedule our cash meet so that he could pay Me for the tattoo, he was feeling sick. he still go...

Owned by: Goddess CopperLotus Written Jan. 19th, 2020. I mark my time in chastity on this calendar, crossing off the days that Goddess’ cocklet is locked ...