Teaching Tip: Tips with an example of what to look out for.

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Hello Supreme,Superior Queen Fae

Very good Tuesday afternoon to you. I am sorry for troubling you , but i could not resist in reaching out to you.I would love to have the opportunity to get to know you.

I am so addicted to your profile and pics, i wondered if this slave can have the opportunity of serving, worship,honor and obeying you in person?

For me it is all psychological, not sexual at all. The thrill of being totally controlled, used, abused, humiliated, bullied, degraded,forced to do as i am told, in fact not to even be allowed to speak,again it is not a sexual thing for me at all,live to serve, total zero orgasm for me.
All my life i have been .deemed so called alpha male, standing 6ft 5in tall, broad shoulders, ex pro rugby player,whether when i played rugby, running my own business, socially, vanilla relationships,family matters, always looked upon as the so called alpha male.
Yet beneath this lays the hardcore,weak,ultra submissive, that simply really wishes to be bullied, verbal humiliation, used, i know lots of so called submissive slaves say what i am about to say, but i sincerely mean it.
Within reason ,do absolutely anything with or to slave(only limits are blood,needles and hardcore pain), in fact i feel the more assertive, selfish, bossy, nasty, cruel, twisted, kinky,bizarre,harsh the better in the sense i am always fully aware i am a slave, purely to please, pleasure, satisfy,even be your amusement.
Vanilla i am professional, caring, kind, intelligent,successful.
I long to have a genuine connection, where, hopefully i can be used as reg as required.
Distance is no issue, as nor is anytime, days, nights etc, i can take off absolutely anytime required,as i said i run my own businesses.
If a connection could be made, then obviously it would be amazing.
Hope you have a nice week, hopefully hear from you soon."

Ok let's break this first message down and show you something about the way he appoarched. He started out respectful. However this is what through me into a yeah right moment.

All my life i have been .deemed so called alpha male, standing 6ft 5in tall, broad shoulders, ex pro rugby player,whether when i played rugby, running my own business, socially, vanilla relationships,family matters, always looked upon as the so called alpha male.

Here he is bragging. Stating the best way possible that he can have anyone he wants. He has money, muscle and tall.  A manipulation tactic to make you feel special that he chose to talk to you. Nothing more. And 9-10 times this is a lie. Pay attention the the "running my own business" as he changes this in future messages.

His second misstep is this.

Within reason ,do absolutely anything with or to slave(only limits are blood,needles and hardcore pain), in fact i feel the more assertive, selfish, bossy, nasty, cruel, twisted, kinky,bizarre,harsh the better in the sense i am always fully aware i am a slave, purely to please, pleasure, satisfy,even be your amusement.

Because when I handed it too him he decided to be silenct for a few days. Another manipulation tactic.

Distance is no issue, as nor is anytime, days, nights etc, i can take off absolutely anytime required,as i said i run my own businesses.

This is where he just screwed up royally.  Going from running my own business to businesses.  He tried to through a carrot of greed into the mix so I went right with it. 

My reply to his first message:

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Good Afternoon,
Since you said and a quote "only limits are blood, needles and hardcore pain", I am going to lay it out clearly to you as to what I expect if you wish to seriously serve me.

1- There is a €1000 monthly slave fee. I expect this paid at the first of every month. This is for me to chose what I spent it all and it will never cover my bills. I pay them myself with my own business. You will be used for luxuries. This condition in non negotiable.

2- We will meet 3-4 times every week. Of which eventually you will clean my home on your hands and knees just like one of your photos. These times will have rules and protocol you will follow to the letter around my family. If no one is home we will have other protocol. You will be training in high protocol.

3- Every time I visit London you will make yourself available. If you have a car you are to pick me up from the airport and bring me to my hotel. As of this moment I am going to the femdom ball in London on the first weekend of October. Right now there may not be tickets for you to attend with me but you will make yourself available in between events.

4- I will not interfere in your business in any form other than us discussing goals and making sure that you are on target the reach them. I am highly ambitious and expect my slaves to be the same way in service to me.

The last question I wish to know is if you have a family I need to be aware of?"

I made it clear what I expected of him. I have been doing this since 2001 so I know a lot of the tricks these time wasters try to use. I play into their egos because to me this is just fun when I have time to. I have my own successful businesses as well as selling a few properties I own. I am not only a dominant woman I don't need their money in any form or fasion and I put this clearly here. In my email responds to his baited message to me.

His reply:

"Hello Supreme,Superior Queen Fae,
Firstly i deem myself deeply honored to hear from you.
Sorry for the delay in replying.
I am honestly genuinely so submissive,in fact far more slave like.
1)I would obviously pay the £1k per month to my owner, as i know you need to be spoiled ,pampered and enjoy luxury.
Which please can i point out, if we had a genuine, deep connection,i am successful and live a luxury lifestyle in vanilla, via owning 3 businesses, if we had a genuine,deep connection, i would love you to enjoy this.
2)It would be a real honor to meet you 3-4 times per week.To be on my hands and knees cleaning and scrubbing is where i belong.Clearly i would accept and follow your exact commands and the letter around your Family, so however you decide for slave to act,i shall obey.Accepting total protocol ,i can not express just how keen, willing and eager to be trained,molded into exactly what you want,how you want,when you want.
3)Everytime you visit London, slave shall be there and available for your service,use and demands.
Collect you,drive you,carry your bags,be a real total slave.
4)In vanilla life i am very driven, ambitious ,dedicated,hard working and always run my own businesses.4 I would follow your say so and input.
Family wise, i have two children, whom are now adults and one lives in Australia, the other is married with a child.
Finally, i would dearly love to hear more about your wishes to do with and what with your slave.
Could you kindly explain your point regarding protocol around your Family.As in do they know you are Dominant Mistress, or will slave be ultra vanilla around Family members?
Look forward to hearing from you.
Thank you x"

Red flag one: Sorry for the delay in replying. Overly appologising. Trying to pull heart strings to make me feel important.

Red flag two: 1)I would obviously pay the £1k per month to my owner, as i know you need to be spoiled ,pampered and enjoy luxury.
Which please can i point out, if we had a genuine, deep connection,i am successful and live a luxury lifestyle in vanilla, via owning 3 businesses, if we had a genuine,deep connection, i would love you to enjoy this. First he changes to pounds. A business man would not have these errors as they are maticuless when it comes to their money. Second he tries to control the narrative but demading a gennuine and deep connection. And now we come to the number of business. He is bragging that he wants control by money over this dynamic.

Red Flag three: 4)In vanilla life i am very driven, ambitious ,dedicated,hard working and always run my own businesses. Once agian pointing out how much money he is willing to spend on a lavish lifestyle.  However he is looking for someone who will be flatter but this.  If he was as driven and ambitius he would take the time to make sure his emails to be contained no errors in grammer or going from business to businesses and then of course a number. This is the biggest dark socilogy move because he is trying to make you blind with greed.  Dangling a carrent with no action. 

My reply: 

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Glad that we are on the same page. I have to be blunt and a bit forceful in my first message as you are not the only person (I refuse to call these vanilla abusers slaves) to have messaged me. I get around 200 messages a day here. Most are the one line "Sup babe, let's fuck" brainless trash. So I block those from the start. Every once in a while one with some intelligence sends a polite and long message so I will reply with my demands and see if said person can handle what I want.

One of the things I didn't put in your last messages is if you decided to go this route I expect you to serve for a year and a day before I will offer a collar of ownership. I have owned house slaves before and I find that the ones who had to really work for it tend to fight for that ownership and will not stray to the lower class dominants that scatter Fetlife.

To answer your last question I have two adult children that live in America and have finished collage. .... (I took out only the age of my family at home) They know by two of the couples they have met in person what a slave is. But they do not need to be exposed to a naked man or someone in a tutu cleaning my house. I am also happily married for the last 18 years with my vanilla husband. He knows I want to own a slave but at this moment a male live in may cause some dominance issues. The year and a day things is also for him to see that this is real and not just some kink dispends by his wife.

Inside the house with family around you would be in a nice button up skirt with slacks to clean and/or cook. over time you would have a metal collar under your shirt as a reminder of ownership. Without family around I would have you scrubbing my floors on your knees with a small brush so I know my floors are perfectly clean. I may add chains at some point as one of your photos gave me an idea.

I am a sadist though not always with pain. I enjoy humiliation, degradation, trampling and cuckold. I enjoy making sure that at no time are we equals in my house. You will be reminded often. As afar as chastity with you...I am not sure yet. I have ideas I will keep to myself at this time.

I do admire the fact that you changed the currency I demanded and I will accept. I also want a genuine connection and intellectual growth. I detest people who wish to stay stagnant. I have high standards when serving and I will teach you how to make my juices and my hot coco first thing in the morning. I will teach you the standard I will for you to keep when we are not in public or a femdom event. This will take time. I rarely rush into things. I do like the fact that you wish to spoil me and this is something I will enjoy from you as we bond. The £1000 per month is a bare minimum and something I do expect to start soon. I want to establish the dynamic of rules and protocol. Other the next day or two we will switch to Telegram app so that we can comminate freely when you are off work.

What are you needs in this dynamic? Be honest as everyone has needs that must be met for any dynamic to work. What experience do you have in the service world?

After this message It took him three days to reply. And I knew he wasn't any other the things he claimed while bragging. See a submissive with real money and ambition has taking the time to read your profile...your website and found your links and would have started from after the first message with actions to serve. As in paying the amount I asked for what he was looking for. A TPE dynamic where he took time to clean my house. The reason he took so long to reply was because he isn't real. He is nothing more than an ego hoping for a woman desprate enough to fall for the things he wanted you to be. He come back with the excuse of a being busy.

His stort reply:

"Thank you for your messages,i shall reply in detail tomorrow. I have been extremely busy with my businesses. I will reply in depth tomorrow, thank you. x"

Notice just how short this message was and the promise of details tomorrow which never arrive. The more I call him out in it the more is message become so short and he lost the grip of control. Always call them out. Keep in mind his first message said "in fact i feel the more assertive, selfish, bossy, nasty, cruel, twisted, kinky,bizarre,harsh" Yet he can't handle being busted. He can't handle my sterness or even the bossy attetude I have. At this point I was enjoying them squirming and new within a few days he wasn't able to deliver so I let him keep trying. Oh and the reply tomorrow never happened.

My reply: "I do not appreciate being left to wait for more than 48 hours when I was expecting an update within 24 hours. Being a successful business man, you should know how easy it is to lose an opportunity when someone does not feel valued. Especially when you were so eager…"

His took yet another day to formulate his excuse. Anyone in the business world knows that if you truly want something you don't let an opportinuty go for so long. You make time to reply. You make time and you hold yourself accoutable by actions. Notice it has been three days at this point and still no real reply. All short message and he is crumbling. I have called out everything. 

"Hello Supreme,Superior Queen Fae,
I am sorry for the delay in replying to you. I have had a very busy vanilla period.
I had a unexpected business trip to Zurich. I am sincerely sorry.
I shall read the previous messages and reply in detail this evening.
Queen Fae please understand just how willing, keen and eager i am to be fully used, abused, owned, controlled.
Thank you."

I called bullshit but in a way that he could believe I might think he is going to follow through.

My Reply: "If I didn’t think you were sincere in the slightest, I’d have blocked you immediately after you make me wait so long for a response. I like you k ow that at times business gets busy. However you had better be preparing a better response this evening to the messages I have sent you. If I do not wake tomorrow to something acceptable you will hear my disappointment with a punishment."

I just gave him everything he asked for. And called him out of his BS. The dark socology I used If I didn’t think you were sincere in the slightest, I’d have blocked you immediately after you make me wait so long for a response. To create the since of loss. The compliment is the make him think I feel for his bullshit. These two message quickly within an hour. Amazing how he can formula this but still can't deliver his "detailed reply" but can beg with the next message. At this point I am rolling my eyes. He is useless and I know it. I am completly uninterested. 

His pathetic reply: "Queen Fae please i beg x" 

His X at the end of so many messages proves to me he is a scamer and I know it. When I let him know it take him 5 minutes to block me. On and this idiot sends the same begining message to my none business account within seconds. He is looking for someone desperate for money so he can send them the line of "I need you to see xxx amount to me so I can send the gift cards you requested." When I wasn't falling for it and just demand a price of 5555 pounds he ran. I wasted his time and hopely with this I have given you enough example to avoid this for youself in the future. 

What qualifies me in all of this. I have been a financial dominant since 2001 when I invested my first $20,000 tribute into stock that gave me dividends. I have co ownership in the business that this person tributed me (A gentlemen's club and dungeon). I have been an offline dominant from 2001 until 2016 when I started posting online. That gives me 23 years in this business. Why I am sharing this for free? Because I don't gate keep if I can help it. This is a gold mine of information if you pay attention.

Submissives if you wish to serve you can go here pick a form of payment and send nothing less than 100.  I have a track record and am not new to this. I don't want excuse I want accountablity to be your first form of service.