Checking in...Something that we all should do.

I have not been as active here due to building my Onlyfans content and working on my mental health. See being a Dominant also means we have to take a step back and looking at what is best for us.

I took the past 19 days to take a step back. Here is what I found out.

1- Not all of my submissives will wait for me. Granted I never once expected this. Anyone who is in this business for more than one month knows that the majority we attract are kinkers. They don't look for long-term but a quick fetish itch and off the go. Fair enough.

2- There are Submissives that bend over backward to check on you. Let's face it I have been doing this for 20+ years. This was a shocker to me. But something I am very happy with. These are the people I do spend extra time with because they do make my life better. These are men and women with lives of their own but notice when I do not post or update as often. I may not reply to messages as I once did. Yet they still send small amounts with messages "Hope to make you smile." or "Wishing you a good night beautiful." 

3- Networking means also making friends. I got into networking thanks to a fetish group in my area. I wasn't looking for anything other than a place to relax without working. It wasn't until the pandemic hit that we started having zoom meetings and really networking as friends. Helping each other and growing our knowledge base. The best part to come out of it. When one of us lost our home...the whole group contributed to making sure this one member found work, a new place to live, and had a safety net until it happened.

4- Having the ability to say no. Some of us when we start out take on any submissive who hands us money just because at that moment it may pay the bills. Thanks to smart planning and paying attention to trends...I have 5 different income streams. Meaning, I don't just settle. I take on people who generally add to my lifestyle.

Ladies don't give up.  You will get there. But keep in mind it takes work.

Sumissives: Check in with the dominants you enjoy.