Queenfaev

"Above all else I cherish my slave, in the knowledge that the gift he gives me is the greatest gift of all. I am strict and take full advantage of the power given to me, but know to share the pleasure that comes with this precious gift. I am in control of myself first and foremost, so that I may control others. As a stern and demanding Queen, I can cause my slave real tears. ...

I have been searching online for years. I am picky. She must be busty and well taken care of. Her pussy must also be shaved and she must be submissive or a slave. These thoughts run through my head as I make the final preparations to meet with yet another potential female slave. She should be arriving soon. I check the last of my WhatsApp messages to confirm that she has not canceled. When I look up I notice a very well dress busty woman sitting on a park bench across the empty park from me. Sh...

I have this one sub who enjoys a good tease. He will never see me in one photo because it is just too much for him. It started out that he would send €50 via circle pay every other day. His reason “because it is about time a creative, amazing woman like you is finally shown the respect she wants.  We emailed back and forth for 3 months. I would send audio files with small tasks or taughting hello or good night. He would send bonus payments if he enjoyed them.  On our three month anniversar...

:kiss:When most people think of dressing up, especially in the BDSM world, they think leather, pvc, or latex. There is a time and place for those and frankly I think the internet has churned out enough “models” thinking that is the only way to dominate. I can dominate a submissive in jeans and a t-shirt or in my flannel PJs for that matter. It depends on my mood and what I wish to show the sub at that time. I have days like last weekend where I got dressed to the max classy cocktail dress,...

One of the biggest reasons this fetish is being dragged through them mud so often is because of basic safety and miss labeling. Basic BDSM safety Acronyms are as follows.   Safe Sane and Consensual (SSC), Risk Aware, Consensual, Kink (RACK) and Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink (PRICK). I will give you a small explanation here but if you really want something informative you should by Madame Sossette's Greed. I won't regurgitate something that she has so well written. And o...

Do no harm to oneself or other! When people come to the BDSM world they are here for experience pleasure or something that makes them happy, this is the reason for rule number one. Let me explain. There is a big difference between hurt and harm.  Hurt is temporary, such as a bee sting or the sting of a crop. Harm is long lasting or permanent, like the loss of a limb, despair, PTSD, emotional wounds.  No one is perfect and accidents happen so make sure you are prepared for it. As a Dominant...

Some of you may have noticed a poll I posted a few days ago and I posted something similar on Reddit for the same reasons. I am discussed by the way media has portrayed our fetish. I am upset even more by the amount of insta-domme's that have flooded the scene as a result. As a dominant myself I am sickened by it. Why?  As a dominant period, it is our responsibility to nurture the submissives that come to us. We need to know what is going on in there life. Are they stable, mentally, emotio...

Let's put it this way. If you did not have a template of how Findom was supposed to be. Would you continue to do exactly what you are doing? What it bring you happiness? These are the questions I have been asking myself since I got back from American. Frankly, it was because I was sick of people coming to me with preconceived notions in their heads of how much this subject is related to sex and sex alone. Simply put out of the  250 emails I would get in one day. 1 from that month maybe someon...