Queenfaev

Note that this was taken straight from my blog on both Hepays and my Website. It annoys me to some extent that my online posts seem to come off to some subs that I am only interested in the extreme financial domination dynamic. So in this blog I am going to try and break it down a little to explain a few things. ...

So a few days ago someone asked me why I don't take down blogs that are obviously rants.    My answer was simply this: ...

QueenFae About me: Started training as a submissive in 2000. Started dominating in 2001. ...

So recently I spent time with a male from another site. I refuse to name him due to the fact that I do not par-take in drama. Also if you are a Domme who knows this person by how I have described it DON'T name him. You may message me. But no public freebies.   So a few weeks ago I had more and a few days of private chat with and account on here. The personality behind the account was fun to talk to and general enjoyed all that we spoke about. It wasn't all kink related. Some was over his b...

Today has been one of the hardest laughs in this kind of work. I am to a point in the business that I don't need to depend on a sub to pay. I can walk right out my front door at any time and do exatly what I want. So when I get messages with a list of demands or something that doesn't please me I can easily decline. Today just topped so many excuses. A person come to me with XXX to pay for me to send him tasks. (At first this was fine). Then his next email was a full essay (10,000 word) of de...

After sitting down for a drink with a frequent client before his long flight out, he says “You can talk a mile a minute when you are nervous like the first time we met. I am used to women being that way with me. Yet the moment you wanted to keep me, you were so quiet. You turned observant, spoke softly with every command, and yet the power just sent chills down my spine.” He shivered. I laughed and deliberately played with the umbrella in my drink. I sat silently for three seconds and then ma...

So it is almost Loktober and I know how easy it is to get excited about showing off your number of locked subs. I have more than a few myself. Each one with their own exposer fantasies as well. However, there is one thing that bugs me and I don't believe I am in the only one who feels this way. I don't want to go to every site on the internet involving the kinky world and get flashed by a caged penis I didn't ask to see. There are classier ways to expose these pets. Adding emoji's over sai...

Point One: If you are that sad that you are going to troll or intentionally attack or harm another human being, Please go seek professional help. There is a difference in terms of hurt and harm. Hurt can be repaired, hurt can be fixed with aftercare. Harm, can not be fixed. Harm takes a psychopathic and narcissistic person to pull off. ...

The moment I made these subs chance me for my time the whole concept of findom as a real powere exchange blew up with more success than I thought possible. See when I first come online I seen so many “gotta catch em all” dommes that I was gobsmacked. It appeared to them that was the only way to succeed. News flash. This isn’t a get rich quick scheme. It really is work. However, when you find that sweet spot of a steady income on your own and draining these subs for just the right amount to sc...

Note: Yeah yeah I know there are still sceptics about crypto currency and by all means that is fine. However please read this with an open mind. Something I have noticed with being online is that there is always a struggle to find ways for newer subs to serve. Having Circle Pay stop it’s serves in some countries through a lot of us off. Now there is Coinbase (crypto currency app) and Paypal that is international. Paypal however is risky as you can loose everything or your account or have a pr...

Most of us have been on Twitter and in kik groups where drama breaks out. One minute subs are talking and enjoying themselves. The next minute one Domme steps on anothers toes...delibrate or not a cat fight starts. Subs vanish. Ever actually taken the time to figure out why? I did. I took the time to survey 250 finsubs. I actually stopped and took time to spend with them.  ...