Ms. Pauley Belle

"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." -- Oprah Winfrey Today many of us sat down with family and friends to share a meal and recite what we are thankful for. This tumultuous year has forced many to reevaluate what matters. We have been given an opportunity to open our eyes to what is important.  ...

Men are hunters by nature. Allow the quarry to come to you.   Have content they can stalk. Lead them down the trail with blogs. Lure them in with pictures. ...

Amazon has put a damper on our holiday plans. This is unacceptable. We are smarter than they are. There are a few things that we can do.  Time to make a burner email address. Use older emails like Hotmail and Yahoo. Instead of being MistressXYZ, try being MrsXYZ. Just use a plain name like Jane Smith, it works. You could make a new Amazon account with purchases going to a P.O. Box. Why give them any more money? There are other retailers with wish lists and gift cards. I am sure they will en...

I do not have a large friend list. Not a fan of Domme or sub collecting on the lists. I want it to be meaningful. How do you get a spot on my friend list? It is something you earn. It is an honor for a submissive.   Earning it is simple. Send a tribute. Do this prior to sending the request. I am not going to waste my time adding submissives that add no value to my life. Show me why I would want you. Earn that coveted position. ...

The holiday season is stressful. Find ways to lower stress.   Spend time with loved ones. Avoid chaotic relatives. Do not feel pressured to uphold family traditions. You are an adult, make new traditions that are less stressful. ...

Not every financial submissive is a loser. There are submissives that cannot stand to be referred to as such. They are not. They are strong powerful businessmen. Humiliation is not on their list of kinks. They are men that enjoy giving money to a dominant woman, nothing more nothing less. Yes, the rare human ATM does exist. Submissives, you still have a right to let Dommes know that humiliation is not your kink. You should never feel shy about putting it on your profile page. When it is on ...

Most people know that Belle Darlin is my daughter. Not everyone knows she has a twin brother. Some may have heard me refer to him as Gingerman. He has a good friend that we will refer to as Cookie. Cookie has been around for years. He has always been very good at doing what is asked of him around my home. He has helped paint, do yard work, and run errands. He is the puppy dog type. Recently, Cookie got a job at a local fast-food restaurant. He and Gingerman were planning to go hang out at ...

I have not been able to go to any conventions this year. I miss going to the different classes and learning about new kinks or different ways of doing things I already do. I would love to see people on here step up and maybe do some masterclasses, well Mistress classes, on things they are good at. We could do classes and Q&A sessions in the chat room. Perhaps have them one night or day a week?   I know I would love to learn more about filming techniques. I am always up for new Shabari less...

People have certain expectations. A new Domme might be completely new to the kink or how online submission works. Perhaps, they saw a video or heard from another person how easy it is to get money from a submissive. When that doesn't happen immediately, they might throw up their hands and in frustration write something on like "subs are all time-wasters". Let me be clear. The only person that can waste your time, is you. Dommes are strong and independent. We are the masters of ourselves. We dete...

When looking at pictures online, I find many send mixed signals. Men are visual creatures. Our pictures are an important part of attracting attention from subs and ultimately their wallet. Here are a few that can confuse. Wearing Collars- Any collar, but especially the O-ring collar (one large ring for fastening). These are not part of a shirt's collar. Collars featuring such rings are often worn by submissives to indicate that they are in a D/s relationship. Seeing a woman wearing one as a...

You want to loosen up a submissive's resolve. A few strong drinks should open that wallet. Right? Do you know how to do this safely? Do you know the risks? What are your safety protocols? There are questions you need to ask prior to the first drink.  *How much do they Weigh?- You need this to be able to figure out a safe limit. The body can only process about one drink an hour. One serving is defined as: ...

Do you know what some of the more import abbreviations in BDSM mean? BDSM is Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism. Bondage- sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. the state of being a slave. Dominance- power and influence over others. ...