Featured Domme
Upgraded Members
-
Lifetime Member -
Lifetime Member -
Royal Domme -
Lifetime Member -
Lifetime Member -
Lifetime Member -
Lifetime Member
-
Lifetime Member
A TickTock video does not miraculously turn you into a Domme, nor does a YouTube video. It takes lots of training. I am currently taking Shabari classes. The reason I am learning from a seasoned instructor, versus just watching videos online or reading a book, I want to make sure I learn how to play properly. I want to know what can cause pleasure, pain, and damage. I want to tie safely. Safety is the reason you should seek proper training.
There are so many aspects in a dominant scenario t...
253 views
6 likes
Every dominant has their ideal stable size. Mine is no more than four owned submissives and unlimited admirers. I give time to my owned pets. They achieve this honor because I enjoy them.
I am fortunately in a position to be very selective. I get numerous offers of submission. I can pick the ones that please me and ignore the ones that are a nuisance.
...
244 views
4 likes
I often get asked what advice I have for people starting out in Findom. I have a few. They are quite simple.
Be Yourself. Do not fake who you are. It takes too much work to put up a front. Eventually, you will slip up. Why exert the effort? You are someone's "cup of tea" just like you are.
...
377 views
4 likes
I prefer the term "Ms.". The term “Ms.” is used when you are not sure of a woman's marital status, if the woman is unmarried and over 30 or if she prefers being addressed with a marital-status neutral title. I am definitely over 30. I am not a fan of my marital status having any bearing on my title.
"Lady, Madame, or MLady" can be used by newer submissives wanting my consideration.
...
251 views
7 likes
A comment my sub posted brought on this blog.
When it comes to my wish list there is more to it than just a list of desired items. I take the time to read reviews. I do not want an item that is of poor quality. I deserve the best.
I search for the best price. Yes, I look for bargains. It leaves more money for you to purchase more. I even look for coupons that the sub can use and link it in the items comment area.
...
187 views
1 like
Many Dommes love Halloween. Tricks and Treats galore this holiday. Little subs will be bewitched under our spells. Sexy costumes make tease and denial that much sweeter. Speaking of sweet, the treats we receive are devilishly tasty. Spooky how much you will want to tribute this month.
This challenge is for unowned subs to sink their fangs into. Seek out six Dommes that have a haunting enchantment over you. Of the six, pick three to send cash and three to purchase gifts off their w...
362 views
1 like
Written words are powerful. They can arouse emotion. A simple word choice can change the reader's mindset. For this, one should pay attention to options. I notice many posts using the word "need" where the word "desire" would be the better alternative.
Need is something basic, an absolute necessity. We need food, air, sleep, shelter, etc.. These are essentials. A Dominant should be able to provide for themselves. They should have control of their requirements.
...
334 views
2 likes
Low self-esteem can affect subs and Dommes. It can increase or decrease over time. None are immune to lfe changes. Fortunately, there are ways to feel better about yourself. Here are some tips to improve your self-esteem:
1. Do and be your best self. RuPaul said it best, “If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” Start with your self. Be less critical. No one is perfect, perhaps close. Learn to accentuate the positives and fix or accept your negatives. Try...
212 views
1 like