I've been a lifestyle domme since 2009. I however, knew about the kink lifestyle before then but never knew about the findom stuff. I learned about it from a fellow Domme. Tthen started doing foot nights as a beginning of findomming. I no longer do foot nights due to drama from the host who said bad things about a few of us. I do have a mentor that teaches me how to do sessions outside of the longline world. She is an awesome person and is a kickass Domme. I learned a lot over the years but once...

I noticed in the chatroom a lot of things. i pay attention what is going on around me. The one thing that is important in a chatroom are manners. all kinds of good manners. Like for instance, how are you? im doing well, how are you Mistress Aeval (fill in domme's name here)?. i noticed as of late that a lot of the subs arent doing this. or maybe im just imagining it. But overall, ive seen this. it doesnt take long to ask how we are. Plus your how are you goes a really long way. Even a hello goes...

It is exciting to have a new sub under my wing. We have a lot in common and have great conversations. He is loyal and caring. He has been doing a few task for me and i enjoy him doing them. i am sure he enjoys doing them as well. he has gotten the lifetime cash verify which is music to my ears. he knows what makes me happy and what doesnt make me happy. at least i hope i made that clear. he is fluent in hebrew which is a language im trying to relearn. and he is a wonderful teacher as i am a wond...

Tomorrow is valentines day. the day that you tribute to a Domme/Goddess/Mistress. the day you show how much you adore her. The day that you make her happy like you should do everyday. I love tributes any day of the week but vaentines day is a bit extra special.  what do i love? money obviously, stuff bought from my wish list. i accept circle pay, google wallet and amazon gift cards. the gift card to come from the USA site. i cant use the others that amazon has. Nothing make me happier on a holi...

I figured i write a blog where subs can ask me any questions they feel like. and ill answer them. these questions will go onto my website as well. sometimes you just wanna know someone but afraid to ask a question or not sure how to phrase it, etc. i get questions all the time but i like to be asked in one spot. My profile has a lot of information about me already but again there may be something that needs to be asked that may not be already there. it sparked on me today to do a FAQ for my webs...

We all need to look good in chat in order to get the best of the fetish. The slaves/subs need to be on their best behavior to show us that we can trust them and they will be loyal to us. The other side of it is the dommes needing to be on their best behavior. Why? it shows the slave/subs that they can trust us knowing that are not the enemy.  The one thing is you want to look good. by bashing, asking for tributes from the get go will show the others that they may not want to associate with you....

I had another fun session in the wee hours of the morning. This time it was with someone different. I enjoyed talking to him and having a session fall into place. We were limited in what tools we could use online but we used a shoelace, clothes pins, and a birthday candle. I came up with ways to utilize those tools. The shoe lace was to tie up his cock and balls. So a wee bit of CBT. Not like my normal CBT but it was still fun. next i had him put the clothes pins on his balls and a few on his ...

Ive been on this site since 2013. ive seen the chatroom change a few times. and this time it changed for the better. however, there is one thing that is missing, the subs/slaves. When I started there were quite a bit of them in the room chatting. over time, ive noticed that they dont come in the room or are quiet in the room. Here are a few rules i have or notes that i remember learning from the others.    1) you are allowed to talk into the room. its your room too. owned or not, you are allow...

Its been a while since i had a session. A lot of the times the boys want a free session and i turn down a lot of them. I dont have time to give free sessions! its either you pay for one or get the fuck out of my face. I work hard in learning, etc on what i do. Yes i am nice and ill talk to everyone but there is a time and place where the tributes needs to come in through sessions.  so my session i had. it was great! it was 15 mins of CBT with a slave from here. I used a ruler, slipper, hair bru...

I've noticed in my years on this site that there is a lesson to be learned the difference between need and want. They both are different and not the same at all. So what are the differences between the two. Are there really a difference? Yes there are! Here are the difference in my own words.  Need: I find this word as if its begging. Or not really wanting what is true. The word is so passive. I always see it used with the newer dommes that are new to the lifestyle. I also see it as i said begg...

As the years go by i discover more about myself and others on the site. When i first signed up, i didnt know what i was getting myself into considering ive only used fetlife. I remember greeting someone over on fetlife that had this site in their profile. I decided oooo a site specifically for findom. So i too the jump and signed up. I signed up on dec 6th, 2013. When i got verified i was so nervous, wasnt sure how it was going to be. I had so many cams looking at me and at first i was uncomfort...

So i am working on what i want this holiday season. It seems the question everyone is asking me. To my friends and family im like i do not know. for those on here, i want whats on my wish list. i of course cant give them my wish list and say here you go. My wish list is for slaves/subs only. I update it as time goes on. I have a holiday one now that will be private after the holidays. or moved to other albums. SO you wanna spoil me. well i want you to spend every penny you have. my wish list, ht...

So today marks my 40th year on this earth. So far ive been relaxing and enjoying the time to reflect my newfound age. Ive gotten so many happy birthdays on facebook. but over here, not so much! only a few! i am surprised at you boys who havent wished me a happy birthday or even tribute to me on this special day. There are so many things i want! and i should get it! Google wallet is something new to me. I like this option has it is instant. Yes I love money. I am greedy. And that is what i wa...

its almost that time of year again when i turn a year older and enjoy being spoiled. I always enjoy getting gifts from everyone. I really enjoy it more from the boys. How old will i be this year? 40. The big 4 0. So i should be spoiled big time i hope. Every year since ive been here the girls do better than the boys. You boys better tribute this year. The past years ive been disappointed. Well this year will change. So what do i want for my birthday boys? here is a list of things i would love to...

Time over time Ill see the same shit that continues and you wonder if its true or if you are going to do the wait and see. So boys, here are a few tips for you that can make you a better slave whether your new or whether you've been here for a while. Just note, that we take note as to who is bad and who is good. So dont think that we dont. Amazon: There are a few things about amazon that is always important. 1) prime & 2) keeping the orders. 1) always have amazon prime....us girls like t...

2 months from now it will be my 40th birthday. September 4th to be exact. I will be 40 years old and still looking hot. What do I want for my birthday? Or i should say between now and then? Gift cards from the places listed, gifts from my wish list, and perhaps other ways to tribute as well. It depends on how i feel really on what i want. Maybe i'll wallet rape you and drain you dry. I have my wants that i hope from my wish list. Its something that im not going to tell you what it is, but its fo...

I had a fellow domme remind me that ive been on this site for 3 years. Im like holy shit how did i almost miss that!!! Its been an interesting 3 years so far. It seemed it went by so fast. And then there were moments where it was slow. Ive seen gals come and go, and boys come and go. Then i see a few return. It has been an interesting ride as well. The friendships ive made, those that ive met in person. The slaves that ive came across that i still talk to. Some i tease. I may not be the most...

My birthday is September 4th which is approaching quite quickly! The rest of the month and next month i want to be spoiled rotten. I'll be 39 and deserve lots and lots of tributes. This year, i expect to be spoiled. ot like other years where the boys are misbehaving and not being a good finslave that they are suppose to be. I want to be happy and have gifts overflowing outside my door. So here are a few thing that can make me a happy 39 year old. I must say that the gals on here do a better job ...