Curvy Miss Q

I love money! But I love it for more than just buying things I love the control and power that comes with it, the feeling I get when I recieve it from subs, the taking and draining of it and the control over a subs finances! Money is a huge turn on for me, but when I take it from you that is a feeling no amount of words can describe!   Budget control is something I enjoy because of the power exchange, you go to work and earn that money but I tell you what you can spend and what you can't, ...

Taking the time to educate yourself and do some research is important to both Dommes and subs I appreciate that when someone is new to the world of kink it can take time to understand it all, to discover more but that will only go so far until it becomes an excuse, you can't keep playing the I am new to this card and hope someone will buy it! There is so much information out there, there is a load on here alone, read blogs, engage in the community, create and read the polls do as much as you ...

I know for some subs they like to be called names and degraded, being called a loser or a pig makes them turn weak however one mans kink is another mans limit. I myself am not a big fan of the loser thing, I want someone who works hard and puts in effort and I am not saying that everyone who likes to be called a loser has the attitude of one it is just an opinion/preference . But the reason I write this blog is as a Domme I have never just assumed that every sub I talk to or interact with ...

I have always been more aroused by kink and fetish than I ever have by anything vanilla  (not that I am saying there is anything wrong with vanilla of course)  There is something about the exchange of power, something I can not begin to put into words, watching over time as subs become weaker and fall deeper into pleasing me, watching a sub squirm or beg for attention, the look on a subs face when they know they have pleased you or when you have told them they have done a good job  The exc...

I have seen subs jump into being owned or Dommes owning subs and it rarely works out, why? Because it was rushed into You have to be willing to wait and give things  time. I will not own someone I barley know anything about, I need to ensure that we are on the same page, that the sub has worked hard and proved he is worth my time and attention, that he will follow through with what he says, none of this is going to happen over night. If a sub is asking me how long it will take to earn my trus...

I seem to come across the whole fighting the urge to submit thing quite a lot and it got me thinking why? In my opinion there could multiple reasons why, maybe the sub is scared of how they feel, maybe they don't want to accept that they are submissive,perhaps they see submission as a weakness (which it is not), they could worry what others think, but sometimes to be honest I also think it is said to get attention. But why would I think it is attention seeking? Because to be blunt it can c...

I think most of us Dommes have heard the whole "what do I get?" from men when tribute is mentioned and the simple answer is nothing!  A tribute is a gift, it shows me you are serious, it gets you noticed Sending a tribute entitles you to nothing, if you want a session then you pay for one, also if you have tributed before and then want to pay for a session the amount you sent as a tribute is not going to be deducted from the cost of the session ...

I don't want to be ripped off again Mistress, I don't want to be conned, I have been ignored before... Not my problem! I (like a lot of Dommes) hear this often but it really is not my problem, of course it is not ok if a sub has paid for a session and been ghosted and such but you need to do reserach, you need to check out profiles and so on, look for verification or use clip sites  I am verified here and it clearly states on my profile that I have a cam verified badge, I won't go around s...

 I am not talking about the question some ask when tribute is mentioned but really what is in it for me! I (like many Dommes) get asked for various things on a regualr basis, Mistress can you do this  Mistress can you do that? Dress me up,humiliate me  and so on, can I do those things, yes, do I want to do those things? That is a different question I only do and engage in stuff that I enjoy, of course I want my subs to enjoy it but the enjoyment has to be a 2 way thing ...

Of course both Dommes and subs are human,there is more to us than a title but sometimes I think it  can be forgotten (on both sides) that there is still a person with feelings behind the dominance or submission  Now speaking personally here I think there may be misconceptions that a Domme is heartless, they don't care and such, and that we shouldn't show any emotion or our human side as it makes us seem less dominant, I am more than some kink dispenser  I also think a subs human side gets ...

Compliments, do you enjoy them or is it just pointing out the obvious? Now I am not saying I don't like or enjoy compliments or subs should not give me any but what I do find when a sub compliments the same thing especially on multiple pictures and stuff then the whole thing tends to be a bit watered down Telling me how dominant and powerful I am (for me personally) is not a compliment it is just pointing out the already obvious ...

In my opinion there are subs and customers A sub wants to serve and a customer is just that, someone who wants to pay for  something and that is it There have been times someone has wanted a session with me but they have been worried that I would only do one if they were serving me, they are not into financial domination, they don't want to serve in any capacity they just want a session. I will consider sessions whether they be one off or something more frequent and anything inbetween, I w...