BBW_Findom

For those of you who are not aware, I do offer real time sessions to subs who I know and trust and I have had lots of fun this year making my subs learn their rightful place at my feet. So last year I had a session with a first timer who asked for foot worship. This dirty little worm afterwards informed me that he felt he was my first ever real time submissive (insert manic laughter here). Baring in mind this pathetic little dog turd had never seen a mistress before, I felt it prudent to ease hi...

So I just want to talk about the sisterhood. As a findomme I feel that making friends and bonds with other dommes is important, if not necessary within this lifestyle. Having other powerful, independent and fierce women who can support you emotionally, spiritually and mentally and vice versa is a real asset in this fetish. Dommes who claim they're so independent they don't need anyone else are, in my opinion, kidding themselves. Being a findomme is so much fun, it's a sexual awakening and it...

Good Afternoon all, I hope your enjoying your week so far. My blog today is about tributes, but more specifically, little tributes. Although I adore large tributes, triple and quadruple digits being very exciting, for many findomme's the smaller tributes make up the bulk of our gifts. For new domme's especially, larger tributes may be something they have only seen established domme's receive, and lets be honest, not all finsub's have the means to send those kind of figures. Does that mean...

So I've seen a little bit about findom addiction here and there in the past, and until recently I had not paid it much thought. That is, until today. I'm ashamed to say I've been lazy with my online presence over the last few months, I got complacent with my regular subs and let my social media accounts go to rack and ruin (well... for a findomme anyway!) Over the last week I've got my shit together and been a lot more active, especially on twitter. Earlier today I saw a tweet appear in my f...

On a daily basis I, and countless other financial dommes, get asked the million dollar question; "What's in it for me if I tribute?". Personally I feel that findom is not a transaction. When a sub tributes me, he is not going to receive any favours in return, nor should he expect to. I provide my time, patience and guidance to subs who continually prove themselves worthy by tributing me, showing loyalty and a willingness to expand their sexual horizons through fetishes. A tribute should b...

So aside from fetish websites such as this, I'm on a few different social media sites as a findomme and (mainly) on social media, I hear alot of dommes complaining about poaching. Now I can totally understandable why a dom/me would be unhappy, if her sub made it clear on his profile as well as advertising to others that he is owned, when another domme comes along Knowing full well he is owned and demands this sub serve her instead. That's bad etiquette apart from being disrespectful and lit...

Evening all. I've had a rather unpleasant experience this weekend, and aside from sharing it with you, I'd also like some advise. So this week I had a message from a "sub" on another website who was interested in blackmail fantasy and exposure. I advised that before I proceed in any sort of play or discussion that I do require tribute. I then heard nothing from him. ...

I apologise if this has already been covered, but I see so many new dommes getting tricked by the same old scams, I thought I would list a few to look out for. 1. Amazon wishlist So many timewasters have used the Amazon wishlist scam time and time again to dupe dommes into giving them free sessions. What happens here is that the "sub" will purchase something from your wishlist, screen shot the check out page and send it to you befor cancelling the order. You don't get any notification to s...

I'm always interested in how my subs minds work, and fetish triggers are so unique and fascinating that I feel it would make a great discussion. This is a question for the subs here, what triggers you to go into "subspace"? It could be a phrase, an environment, a person or someone's attitude. It could even be something other than that. Some don't recognise their own triggers as they've never really thought about it, but have a think and im sure you will see the pattern. ...

What a fabulous experience it was to sit and watch a submissive scrub away iat my kitchen yesterday. Female supremacy at its finest. A few weeks ago I put up an ad for a domestic slave. I had ralot of interest, but no one tickled my fancy. Some just wanted an excuse to see if they could get a session out of it and some were wanking into tissues as they messaged me with explicit fantasies. I'm not interested in any of that in a domestic. Hard labour is all he could hope for. ...

I love reading the latest news about findom on the net. Every now and then a well known Vanilla publication will post a story about the fetish and it interests me to see how Vanilla people react to it. During my time looking for material, I keep coming across men who are writing in a way that blames the whole community for their own addictions to findom. Indeed, some are even targeting femdom and using that as their excuse for the bad things happening to them. I understand that addiction i...

Lately I've come across a growing number of submissives who have no intention of ever being owned by one dom/me and instead prefer to tribute and serve many at once or "sample as many as possible" and never serving the same lady twice. Fetish is a place where everyone should be accepted, no matter what their kinks (as long as they are safe, consensual and not harming anyone ofcourse!) so all appetites must be served! I am interested to learn about the particular reasons for or against su...