VelvetVeronica

I've had a couple long-term subs bow out recently because of anxiety and depression issues, pinpointing findom as making them worse. One I actively humiliated and degraded, the other I just teased; obviously both I drained regularly. It has me wondering if findom is necessarily destructive, or if there is a healthy way to indulge in the fetish. On the one hand I feel like it is the client's responsibility to know their limits and not pursue a relationship that is harmful to them, but on the ...