Ive been in and out of Findom for the last 10 years or so, mixed in with vanilla relationships. The... View moreIve been in and out of Findom for the last 10 years or so, mixed in with vanilla relationships. The vanilla ones never seem to work or even feel right, which is why i know this is right for me. I am hoping to find a Mistress for a long term relationship, someone who can develop/mould me and help me better for her. A Mistress who sees this as a 'real' relationship and one who understands that serving financially is a true and proper position for someone like me.