Mistress Harley

Another writing assignment from my slave who is so desperate to be homewrecked and kept in total service to me. I enjoy reminding my slaves what THEY get out of serving me. xox ...

Here's another guest blog from a slave I've been keeping in chastity for 10-30 days at a time. Let's check in on his mental thought process and see how he's doing shall we? xox ...

Hello Ladies, As many of you know from you personal inquiries I do a variety of Domme training sessions, everything from computer control seminars to just chatting with you about how to make more money and optimize your business model. You may be a Findom for fun more than profit, but if the whole point of being a professional or Findom is money than making more of it should be what you want to do! I usually offer 30 minute skype consults to my fellow Dommes for $50 per call. This is simpl...

NOTE: This is a different slave than the last blog entry regarding obedience. xox Harley ...

The following is an Essay written by one of my long term slaves. This slave is currently bound to me via a $10,000 legally binding debt contract as well as ongoing monitoring via phone, computer, and of course my ongoing attention. He is quite obedient (a trait I value in my long term slaves) and nearly never argues with my commands. However after a challenging day of obedience I made him write the following essay. I think you will enjoy it... xox ...

First of all I want to start this blog by addressing a fundamental question: No thought that any person has should be punished. It's when thoughts turn into actions that we as a society can judge what is appropriate for our culture, values, etc. I can sit here and THINK about murdering people all day long (check it out, I'm doing it RIGHT NOW) but until I actually undertake actions to commit a murder, I am not doing anything wrong. That is the point of fantasy, fiction, and imagination, to conte...

I would say that 99% of my slaves who leave or take a break from my service end up crawling back at some point or another, telling me what fools they were for thinking they could enjoy their lonely hand humping without my guidance and control. As a woman who spent the last 2 years in grad school getting my MLIS I really enjoy punishment writing. It forces a loser like this to reflect on this mistakes he made as well as give me a peek into his fucked up inner thought process. This gives me ...

I always love taking the next step in controlling a slave. It typically starts within him, his own thoughts and feelings that lead him to finding me and becoming MINE. But there is always training that needs be done. I like training to start with simple things, thought processes, mantras, essays, slowly understanding, molding, and correcting my slave's thoughts over time. Just as they settle in to feeling comfortable that is when I like to take the next step. After locking my slave in chastity I...

I often tell my slaves that my control is ultimately good for them. Regardless of the concerns they express about finances, I know that my decision making skills are better than theirs. Really men spend way too much of their money on things that don't fulfill them, don't make them happy, and don't serve any higher purpose. FinSubs who don't have a Mistress that they serve singularly often find them selves like food addicts- binging and purging. Spending too much money, compromising themselv...

It's important to remember that your penis is the least interesting thing about you. As I tell loser boys constantly, the point of Femdom is not for me to cater to whatever fantasies you might have so you can stroke off. The point of Femdom is that I GET WHAT I WANT, and that you offer that to me without feeling entitled to any attention for your dick. To me, that is service. Here's a little journal entry I made one of my pindick fatfuck slaves write to remember the point of serving. He has o...

Along with my Tattoos for Noobs post, I decided to write a Tattoo Etiquette guide, for those of you new to the world of tattooing, or old hands who have since forgotten how to operate in the polite tattoo world. Do not touch unless you are given explicit permission. Like the BDSM world, it is typically considered poor manners to touch someone in order to "see" their tattoos unless you have been given permission to do so. If you ask to "see" someone's tattoo, do not then grab them by t...

**As always my blogs are cross posted from my personal blog and not written for any specific community. Read more of my blogs at: http://harleys-financial-domination.blogspot.com/** As someone heavily tattooed, I often get asked where the best place to get tattooed at is, what I look for in an artist, and what the most painful part of the body is. Someone recently picked my brain about how to get started when you want a good piece of work, so I thought I'd share my response. A few of my slave...