The first time I simply paid for a date -- without knowing any details (dinner? theater? clubbing?) was intoxicating. Wondering what, or if, she told the guy about me. Wondering what, or if, he thought of me.
Paying for an actual hotel room? For the king-sized bed ... the crisp white sheets ... the complimentary breakfast the (gulp) next morning ... now that is overwhelmingly erotic.
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