One of my rt subs and I have a lot of fun with this topic at times. I use it to make him squirm, but at the end of the day, real dommes know it is their responsibility to protect our submissives from themselves. He knows my views on that and that I would never bring him any actual harm. He can relax while we play, soak up whatever I'm hurling at him (and believe me, I may come off sweet but when I get going ouch!) and at the end of the session he's still safe.
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