I apologize if this has been dealt with in another thread. I read through and didn't see anything relatively recently.
First let me say this is only in a fantasy context, I understand that real blackmail is illegal in most countries. This is a topic that I am drawn to and also terrified of. I have no interest in exposure, but the idea of this as a supplement to a power exchange really adds something for me. Even knowing I am probably safe from exposure, I would be far less likely to want to leave an arrangement knowing she has any info about me. The mix of fear and power is intoxicating.
I am curious to hear from those who have experienced with this fetish what are some smart and safe ways to enjoy it. What has and hasn't worked for you?