For me it is the little things that highlight her superiority and the power disparity itself. Thanking her for accepting tributes, groveling, not being allowed orgasms, praying to her. I think when these things become habit and are ingrained the only way to keep up is to give more and more control. The notion that I am so deeply desperate for her approval that I don't have a choice anymore but to send all I can is sub space inducing as well.
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