1) Has to be able to hold a good conversation, and willing to have normal conversations. The more I get to know my Domme the easier it is to submit and trust her.
2) Needs to be kink overlap, I'm always happy to try most things within my limits but if a Domme only wants to see her sub in pain we wouldn't have clicked.
3) She has to be able to push the right mental buttons, massive overlap with the first but so important.
I'm really pleased I've found all 3 in AmberTheStallion!
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