Findom IS NOT "sugaring"

I am afraid it is important to make clear for everyone what domination (the 2nd part into the word FINDOM) means in reality! Domination indicates a kind of leadership! The dominant part knows the way and tells the submissive part (sub or slave) what to do / what to think. It must be clear that failures will not be accepted. On the same hand the dominant person has to take care of the submissive person. So it is leadership and protection by one hand. The sub / slave must feel protected and also leaded from the dominant person. If this kind of leading and caressing is not what you are offering - you are not a domme. If you can not give any leading orders to your sub or slave, if you do not feel dominant, maybe you are sweet and a good person - but you are not a domme!