As a Findomme I'm consistently learning new things. New fetishes, new techniques, and new everything. What I didn't realize at the beginning of my Findom journey was how much I would change as a person. I've become more caring, more self aware and aware in general. I've become the best possible version of myself - or so I had thought. Something that changed about me that I'm finally discovering is a lack of being able to be vulnerable. Findom hardens us all a little I think- as it should. We ...