A TickTock video does not miraculously turn you into a Domme, nor does a YouTube video. It takes lots of training. I am currently taking Shabari classes. The reason I am learning from a seasoned instructor, versus just watching videos online or reading a book, I want to make sure I learn how to play properly. I want to know what can cause pleasure, pain, and damage. I want to tie safely. Safety is the reason you should seek proper training. There are so many aspects in a dominant scenario t...

I hope I am not "over thinking" my training under Mistress Pauley, aka Ms Pauley Belle. But I do like to talk about it as I see it happening. I would never speculate what is on Mistress Pauley's mind. My job is to respond to signals she sends me and only she can judge if I am doing the right thing. I was going to say that each time I send tributes or gifts, my training proceeds. But that is not exactly it. Rather, it seems that as I continue to spend, my enslavement to Mistress Pauley builds ...

I posted this a long time ago and thought it might be helpful to some of the new boys. I've added a little to what I said before; I'm not scolding anyone, just offering a reminder. When approaching a Mistress/Domme for the first time, your opening comments are your first impression and if you blow it, don't expect a reply (not a friendly one anyway). I can't speak for other Dommes but can I tell you that I do not enjoy reading "Hello Mistress, can I be your Sub" over and over from you boys. ...