Topic: submissive

Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...

Hey Everyone!! I wanted to kinda just talk or post about this since it's been on my mind for awhile. So i've been into Femdom about 10 years and Findom about 8 years (on and off). I came back very recently full time and it's very different. I've been trying to stretch my little Findomme wings and have been severly kink shamed. It's crazy because I have always felt very welcome in the fet community but not lately. I am very grateful for this site because I feel very welcome among people who un...

I have been down with the Flu since Thursday morning. You know the extreme fatigue, dizziness and achy body that comes with it all. I had to reschedule appoints and ask for help (two things I hate that made me grumpier). I have spent more that one day sleeping under a mountain of blankets and the sweat streaming down my face. Needless to say NOT a pretty picture. For any dominant person asking for help makes us grumpy as hell so having to ask my husband to help me take a shower because I was ...

There are many kinds of submissives. Each type with their own dynamic. Within each type of relationship, there are different expectations. Here are a few types: 1. Lifestyle or 24/7 365 days a year- This submissive is not a temporary submissive. They live their life for the submission to their One. Many have contracts and all have lengthy discussions on what is expected, allowed, and not allowed within the relationship. These submissive relationships are usually sexual and long term. To the...

I asked one sub to summarise his experience with me so far. I think this is beautiful. Thank you puppy. "The One 33 years old. A long, long standing interest in kink and submission. An active participant, in one form or another, in the lifestyle since my early twenties. Lots of experiences, some bad, some good. A lingering arrogance perhaps, to think to myself that I had truly lived this, lived this lifestyle and truly understood it, enjoyed it, experienced it. ...