They may be elusive, they may be cautious and they may be slow to warm up, but when they do.... you know you are in for something spectacular! The feti-shy as I call them can be hard to track down, hard to win the trust of and you may find them lurking on and off for a very long time, but when they do take the plunge and approach... it’s beautiful. They tend to only approach on their own when they are ready and when they are certain, which makes them sincere. If you treat these precious li...

So you thought you would hang around a Dommes page for a while. You love her posts, her pictures, her style, her attitude. You don't want the pressure of approach you just want to watch her and feel part of her life right? I know I get you and do you know what? That is okay! Lurking is a very important part of our ritual, how on earth do I expect you to get a feel for me, understand me and start imagining fitting into my world, if you cant see it, get a feel for it, see what you could have...

Just incase you hadn't noticed I am a Financial Dominatrix. Yes that title is thrown around very loosely these day in the form of 'instadomming'.  When I talk about financial Domination though, I am of course talking about that amazing space between two compatible kinksters where power exchange occurs.  I am not sticking my middle finger up, whilst shouting "Fuck you, pay me". I am sat on my throne, listening to you tell me why I could possibly want your servitude. Why I should accept your...

Every dominant has their ideal stable size. Mine is no more than four owned submissives and unlimited admirers. I give time to my owned pets. They achieve this honor because I enjoy them. I am fortunately in a position to be very selective. I get numerous offers of submission. I can pick the ones that please me and ignore the ones that are a nuisance. ...

Full blog & free clip available on My website! Click Here Now! Difficulties… Remember when I was like, “2020 is gonna be My year!”? Well, things haven’t quite started out according to plan… First, I was sick for New Years and was really worried that I wouldn’t be able to make it to My planned tattoo appointment on the 7th. Luckily, I was feeling better by the 6th, but when I messaged doughboy to schedule our cash meet so that he could pay Me for the tattoo, he was feeling sick. he still go...

You know why you're here. You know that your place in this world is below your Superiors, serving, to worship, to do everything you can to please your Goddess. You're not a real man- and you accept it. The real challenge for subs (especially new ones) Is taking the leap and approaching a domme. Whats the right way? What do i say? Don't be scared to interact with a Domme. We don't bite, and we want to see if there's a good connection just as you do. What's the point without it? You come acro...

I’m contemplating new streams of revenue and am looking for someone interested in investing a certain amount of money in stocks or funds that pay high dividend yields and then transfer those yields over to me every month.  I think this would be quite lucrative for me.   Additionally, I’m looking for Uber drivers who are willing to provide me their earnings, either daily or if you can’t afford that, then maybe one or two days earnings per week.  I’m also looking for someone who will go get ...

This is a rant more than anything. I have been in my feels the last week or so. Maybe it's because I'm tired of being sick and tired I dont know. I have been in the fetish world oh...probably about a good 10 or 11 years. Exploring, finding myself and figuring out what i want out of my life. I think just up until recently i kinda figured out where my headspace was and what I was trying to accomplish. I want to live my truth and I am no longer shamed by that. Yes, I am a Financial Dominatrix and t...

Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...

Hey Everyone!! I wanted to kinda just talk or post about this since it's been on my mind for awhile. So i've been into Femdom about 10 years and Findom about 8 years (on and off). I came back very recently full time and it's very different. I've been trying to stretch my little Findomme wings and have been severly kink shamed. It's crazy because I have always felt very welcome in the fet community but not lately. I am very grateful for this site because I feel very welcome among people who un...

I have been down with the Flu since Thursday morning. You know the extreme fatigue, dizziness and achy body that comes with it all. I had to reschedule appoints and ask for help (two things I hate that made me grumpier). I have spent more that one day sleeping under a mountain of blankets and the sweat streaming down my face. Needless to say NOT a pretty picture. For any dominant person asking for help makes us grumpy as hell so having to ask my husband to help me take a shower because I was ...