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by on November 19, 2018
See my dear I refuse to be like so many other Dommes that we see all over the internet and frankly I am just a sick of it as the other subs who have come to me before. So today I issue a challenge to any UNOWNED sub looking to be owned and would like to be considered by me. Send me a message being honest about what sets you apart from all the other subs who will take part in this challenge. Here are some questions to answer if you need help. ...
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by on November 14, 2018
The Hunt vs The Wait.. This is a struggle I know all too well in the 17 years of dominating. As a dominant, there is a strong need to hunt down what I want like the prey they truly are. The need to stalk my prey, to get to know them from a distance before I pounce and make them mine. This method works in a crowded room. When you lock eyes with the right sub and you watch and their body language locks them in place. The confusion of fight or flight and then the complete surrender. This is the ...
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by on November 12, 2018
(This blog may be shocking to some of you.  I apologize in advance  :)  Also no criticism or judgment is intended of any other member who may enjoy some of the things I will be writing about.)   If you have read my previous blogs, you will know that I am lucky enough to have the awesome Miss Dakota as my Goddess.  She does not do Cam sessions and I am absolutely fine with that. ...
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by on October 29, 2018
One of the things Miss Dakota asked me to write about in my blog posts is “Past Experiences”.  So here goes…..   I have had submissive feelings for as long as I can remember.  I don’t regard myself as “old” but it’s hard to escape the fact that I have been around a while J  So it’s been a long time…..before there was access to the internet. ...
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by on October 26, 2018
A Financial Dominatrix is general is a (usually female) domme who men get a sexual release from giving them money and getting insulted by them. As a Lifestyle Financial Dominatrix, I offer financial advice to ensure that they do not waste all their money on the kink. I also discuss limits before I session. I will also only play safe sane and consensually. To build something our conversation must flow in and out of kink with ease. Just understand that with kink a price is to be paid. Keep mann...
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by on October 22, 2018
It’s been two weeks since I wrote my first blog post “Under Her Consideration” and I thought I would write about developments since then.   Miss Dakota continues to surprise and amaze me.  For my part, I feel I am falling more under Her influence every day and I love that feeling.  I adore Her more than I can express in words and She is increasingly dominating everything I think about.  One of the many things I love about Her is that every day there is communication with Her, no matter how...
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by on October 22, 2018
We are all human so we all make mistakes. I have snapped on a slave before that didn't need it just because he caught me in the wrong mood and openly apologized for it. I have also had subs be completely selfish and I have called him out on it. To me this is who I am. I tell you how I feel regardless. I have found that they become selfish when I fail to meet their needs. It could be that I have faltered. Maybe I told them I would so something. Instead of asking if I had changed my mind or got...
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by on October 10, 2018
For long term devotion, serve a Domme whose beauty, dominance and values shine both inside & out. If your admiration of Her is only at the surface level, your servitude will remain surface-level too. Find something I can train you, but I wont waste my time. I can care about you, but break a rule Il replace youI can humiliate you, but I'll always remember aftercare, I can rinse you, drain you, having you sending till you cant,  but I wont leave you with nothing. This is what it's like to be min...
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by on October 8, 2018
As the saying goes, “you never get a second chance to make a first impression”.  And that certainly applies to the first message between a Domme and sub.  It can be a bit of a leap in the dark.     I once got a message from someone that just said “Hey there dork”.  The sender of that message could not have known but that kind of message rubs me the wrong way so nothing was ever going to come out of that little exchange. ...
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by on October 7, 2018
This fantasy, is more than a fantasy but a way of life only few findom submissives can handle. giving up the ultimate control. As ith most lifestyles this is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate taboo I have done this with two of my submissives. I control how they licmve their lives day by day. What they eat, when to sleep. I'm in complete cont...
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by on October 1, 2018
1.) You want to escape into the role of someone without so much control. 2.) You need to be given structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled. 3.) You need to have someone to take care of you and be valuable to another. 4.) To be owned makes you feel safe and free. 5.) Having a Dom in your life who is willing to push your boundaries makes you grow as a person. ...
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by on September 27, 2018
Nervous subs should consider what you could lose by approaching me, consider what you could lose if you don’t. Your fear is holding you back from your desire, my ownership, my acceptance. How long will you wait? Being collared by me in the ultimate experience, being my pet is the privilege of a lifetime. What if everything you’ve struggled with about yourself could be a source of pleasure, instead of a source of pain. Of course, dominance can mean pain & humiliation. Dominance can also mean meet...
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