Reading someones profile is so important. I have had so many people on FetLife tell me lately that they have read my profile, but then not had a clue that I am financial dominatrix, or I am married or any other important things. It is all there children. Please do make an effort because if you don't, how on earth am I to take you seriously? I mean you are serious aren't you? Because I can't understand why you would even message me otherwise. I am a serious woman, being playful doesn't nega...

They may be elusive, they may be cautious and they may be slow to warm up, but when they do.... you know you are in for something spectacular! The feti-shy as I call them can be hard to track down, hard to win the trust of and you may find them lurking on and off for a very long time, but when they do take the plunge and approach... it’s beautiful. They tend to only approach on their own when they are ready and when they are certain, which makes them sincere. If you treat these precious li...

So you thought you would hang around a Dommes page for a while. You love her posts, her pictures, her style, her attitude. You don't want the pressure of approach you just want to watch her and feel part of her life right? I know I get you and do you know what? That is okay! Lurking is a very important part of our ritual, how on earth do I expect you to get a feel for me, understand me and start imagining fitting into my world, if you cant see it, get a feel for it, see what you could have...

Just incase you hadn't noticed I am a Financial Dominatrix. Yes that title is thrown around very loosely these day in the form of 'instadomming'.  When I talk about financial Domination though, I am of course talking about that amazing space between two compatible kinksters where power exchange occurs.  I am not sticking my middle finger up, whilst shouting "Fuck you, pay me". I am sat on my throne, listening to you tell me why I could possibly want your servitude. Why I should accept your...

How divine must it be to serve, to devote yourself utterly to such a phenomenal deity. Trusting her, letting her inside your mind. She crawls under every inch of your skin... pulses through every single vein....and claws at every single nerve and fibre. Beautiful, seductive, enticing. How could you resist? Better question why are you resisting? You think too much, thats why you are here. You don't want to think, you want someone to think for you, don't you? Then let me.... ....Let me do al...

I know the title probably sounds action packed, it isn't anything like that though. Got married at 19, created the life I thought I always wanted. I was being controlled and manipulated. I wasn't allowed to have friends, go to the store alone, go to bars, wear "provocative" clothing, spend money on myself or things that would make me happy. I began losing weight and he got angry with me because other men at the gym must have been looking at me.  I found out at 23, he had been cheating since ...

This is a rant more than anything. I have been in my feels the last week or so. Maybe it's because I'm tired of being sick and tired I dont know. I have been in the fetish world oh...probably about a good 10 or 11 years. Exploring, finding myself and figuring out what i want out of my life. I think just up until recently i kinda figured out where my headspace was and what I was trying to accomplish. I want to live my truth and I am no longer shamed by that. Yes, I am a Financial Dominatrix and t...

Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...

Hey Everyone!! I wanted to kinda just talk or post about this since it's been on my mind for awhile. So i've been into Femdom about 10 years and Findom about 8 years (on and off). I came back very recently full time and it's very different. I've been trying to stretch my little Findomme wings and have been severly kink shamed. It's crazy because I have always felt very welcome in the fet community but not lately. I am very grateful for this site because I feel very welcome among people who un...

Ok so Ive been thinking about this topic for awhile now and I want to see what everyone thinks? I see alot in the FinDom world Dommes having Alphas that are their boyfriends. I can see and totally understand that, but I wonder has any Domme thought of having a sub as a bf or husband? To be quite honest, I have always wanted to marry a sub. I would want to wake up and be served faithfully everyday from beginning to the end of my day. I'm hella into cuckolding too so of course I'd be able to do as...