The holiday season is stressful. Find ways to lower stress.   Spend time with loved ones. Avoid chaotic relatives. Do not feel pressured to uphold family traditions. You are an adult, make new traditions that are less stressful. ...

Not every financial submissive is a loser. There are submissives that cannot stand to be referred to as such. They are not. They are strong powerful businessmen. Humiliation is not on their list of kinks. They are men that enjoy giving money to a dominant woman, nothing more nothing less. Yes, the rare human ATM does exist. Submissives, you still have a right to let Dommes know that humiliation is not your kink. You should never feel shy about putting it on your profile page. When it is on ...

You want to loosen up a submissive's resolve. A few strong drinks should open that wallet. Right? Do you know how to do this safely? Do you know the risks? What are your safety protocols? There are questions you need to ask prior to the first drink.  *How much do they Weigh?- You need this to be able to figure out a safe limit. The body can only process about one drink an hour. One serving is defined as: ...

Do you know what some of the more import abbreviations in BDSM mean? BDSM is Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism. Bondage- sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. the state of being a slave. Dominance- power and influence over others. ...

A TickTock video does not miraculously turn you into a Domme, nor does a YouTube video. It takes lots of training. I am currently taking Shabari classes. The reason I am learning from a seasoned instructor, versus just watching videos online or reading a book, I want to make sure I learn how to play properly. I want to know what can cause pleasure, pain, and damage. I want to tie safely. Safety is the reason you should seek proper training. There are so many aspects in a dominant scenario t...

     It is that time of year again. Holidays can be stressful.  Stress can be positive or negative. We have the hustle and bustle of parties, family, and friends. People can feel overwhelmed.    ...

*Do not assume. Ask questions. Negotiate play and play consensually. Remember Safe, Sane, Consensual at all times.   *Do not touch someone's property or person without permission. Consent, consent, consent ...

I am excited. Recently found a local dom willing to put in the time to instruct me. This will be in the art of Shibari.  With anything in life, ongoing education is important. You cannot acquire too much information. One can always improve proficiency. Shibari is a Japanese word that literally means "to tie decoratively". I appreciate the beauty of the intricate knotwork. I am sure I could learn from books or videos on how to tie the designs. What I need an instructor for, is to teach the ...

Every Domme on here is different. We all have personal rules and ways. Here is mine on paychecks.   I do not refer to a sub's paycheck as "my paycheck". It is not mine. I did not work the hours and it is not in my name. With that being said, if you want to please me, you will share part of that pay with me in the form of a tribute. ...