There is this far fetched notion about what a true Female Lead Relationship means. Contrary to popular belief, it's not all about the woman pegging the man,and the man being made to perform oral sex on the woman while in chastity. So the next time you tell a Dominant woman you are seeking a FLR read this first and make absolutely sure it's what you are seeking. A female led relationship (FLR) is simply the one whereby a female takes the charge and calls the shots for the well-being of the rel...

Do you know what some of the more import abbreviations in BDSM mean? BDSM is Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism. Bondage- sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. the state of being a slave. Dominance- power and influence over others. ...

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*Do not assume. Ask questions. Negotiate play and play consensually. Remember Safe, Sane, Consensual at all times.   *Do not touch someone's property or person without permission. Consent, consent, consent ...

   Back in the day, of old school online BDSM chatroom, there were certain rules of etiquette. These rules helped establish roles and beginning training. Unfortunately, some of these have become quite relaxed in use.     The use of capital and lower case when addressing someone or your own name/pronouns indicated the role of submissive or Dominant. A Domme would never use a lower case "i" to refer to their self, that lower case indicates submission. Nor would their names be lower case. ...