Hey, Findoms! It's me again, back with another blog post about the intersection of gender and kink. What could go wrong, right?   It's a subject I love to think about, though. What does it mean to be "male" or "female?" What is masculine, and what is feminine? Where is the line drawn between "straight" and "queer?" Often, particularly in kink scenes, these questions come up even when we aren't actively thinking about them. ...

For all I know, this topic has probably been poked at about a thousand times in all areas of the BDSM kink communities, but I still feel the need to keep it fresh in the minds of others because it is such a valuable lesson. With the rapid growth of those in kink, especially the female end, it would be ideal for everyone to have plenty of knowledge on the world they're stepping into. However, the sad fact of the matter is that it isn't true. By the time a few videos have been watched, and maybe o...