I've been in this world since around May 2000. Back then most of the time the only way that this worked was off-line. Nowadays, there are so many different ways to do this and I'm doing this from Europe. So some of my pay methods will be a different way than America.    PayPal is one of the most popular but there are quite a few downsides for a dominant. One the fees are extremely high and it's easy for a submissive to charge back with this. And it's also easy for a dominant to scam somebody...