I saw a comment earlier about a charge-back on Paypal, on another website. There is a scam where a sub from another country will tribute and then later cancel the tribute. There is a reason. The value of a currency is fluid. The sub will tribute when the value is low, wait a little while for it to go up, and charge-back. This way he gets more money than he tributed originally.   Never use Paypal for sex work (financial domination is sex work by Paypal's standards), it is against their term...

A submissive offered me 1000 a month recently. $1000 a month sounds nice. This submissive male is from India. Knowing conversion rates can be very helpful. Money does not have equal values. I asked if that was 1000 American dollars or Rupees. He said it was rupees. Now if you don't know conversion rates, then you are not necessarily aware that is less than $14 American. I kindly told him good luck in his search. It definitely helps to know conversion rates. $14 a month...No.

I enjoy many things that are considered nerdy. I was curious where the phrase "to pay through the nose" comes from. In 800 to 900 A.D, the Danes in Ireland would slit the nose of those who were remiss in paying the Danish poll tax. Which led me in finding an interesting documentary on one of my favorite subjects, money. While I work I will either have music or a documentary in the background.   This was the history of the use of capital, lucre, cash, lolly, bread, gelt, … I enjoyed watchin...

Reading someones profile is so important. I have had so many people on FetLife tell me lately that they have read my profile, but then not had a clue that I am financial dominatrix, or I am married or any other important things. It is all there children. Please do make an effort because if you don't, how on earth am I to take you seriously? I mean you are serious aren't you? Because I can't understand why you would even message me otherwise. I am a serious woman, being playful doesn't nega...

So you thought you would hang around a Dommes page for a while. You love her posts, her pictures, her style, her attitude. You don't want the pressure of approach you just want to watch her and feel part of her life right? I know I get you and do you know what? That is okay! Lurking is a very important part of our ritual, how on earth do I expect you to get a feel for me, understand me and start imagining fitting into my world, if you cant see it, get a feel for it, see what you could have...

Just incase you hadn't noticed I am a Financial Dominatrix. Yes that title is thrown around very loosely these day in the form of 'instadomming'.  When I talk about financial Domination though, I am of course talking about that amazing space between two compatible kinksters where power exchange occurs.  I am not sticking my middle finger up, whilst shouting "Fuck you, pay me". I am sat on my throne, listening to you tell me why I could possibly want your servitude. Why I should accept your...

Submissives, I am a very busy woman. I do not like wasting my precious time. There are only so many hours in a day. I invest my time in activities that make me happy and prosperous.  I am not only am a Financial Dominatrix.  I run four other businesses from my home. I am fortunate that my work does not take up all of my time. This allows me time to chat often. I do multitask while I am in chat. There will be times, I am called away. My paying clients and submissives have priority. ...

I've been thinking a lot recently about when my lust for money began. I may not have known about findom until a few years ago, but the concept is something I've always been interested in, whether I knew the term or not.   Like most fixations, it started when I was young. Playing video games, I'd always be the one to hoard money, even fictional wealth. Sure, it's fun to spend it, but it's also fun to watch that number go up, and up, and up, and know you have the power to buy whatever you wa...

Lately I've been considering the literal cost of being a woman. All the things I spend money on simply for existing as a woman, along with the "pink tax" (the jump in price when a product is specifically targeted towards women). The easiest products to name are period products (pads, tampons, menstrual cups, etc), bras, and self-defense (classes, mace, stabby keychains, etc). These are just the basics. I could easily add any purchases that have to do with appearance: cosmetics, hair products,...