A need, want, and desire, made you take the time to seek out a site for other like-minded people in the lifestyle, the effort to fill out the info to sign up, and for some, the extra step of getting verified. You did all that, why? Just to lurk and never engage? You spend day after day, browsing through the profiles of many Goddesses, yet never approach, even when a Goddess has approached you. Unless your fetish is actually looking at beautiful, powerful, Goddesses, but never engaging, why ha...

Reading someones profile is so important. I have had so many people on FetLife tell me lately that they have read my profile, but then not had a clue that I am financial dominatrix, or I am married or any other important things. It is all there children. Please do make an effort because if you don't, how on earth am I to take you seriously? I mean you are serious aren't you? Because I can't understand why you would even message me otherwise. I am a serious woman, being playful doesn't nega...

So you thought you would hang around a Dommes page for a while. You love her posts, her pictures, her style, her attitude. You don't want the pressure of approach you just want to watch her and feel part of her life right? I know I get you and do you know what? That is okay! Lurking is a very important part of our ritual, how on earth do I expect you to get a feel for me, understand me and start imagining fitting into my world, if you cant see it, get a feel for it, see what you could have...