A D/s relationship is quite an intricate thing. It stems from trust. So many little things are involved that often escapes our mind. We usually tend to focus on the highs that we are about to achieve. Sadly, too often, we focus on, "What am I getting out of this?" and not, "What am I giving and/or offering in this relationship?" I am a very emotionally invested Domme. That's no secret. I've had exactly 2 subs who were fleetingly short-term and I will never have that again. When I take on a...