I have become convinced that everyone falls somewhere on what I call a Dominance/submission continuum. Most of society falls close to the middle while those of us in the M/s and D/s communities are outliers falling closer to the Dominance or submissive ends of the spectrum. Despite this reality, our society teaches all of its males that they are "are kings" and need not submit to anyone. This teaching is reinforced by family, schools, churches and other organizations with which we deal with on a...

If you are a finsub or switch with an actual brain, have a conversation with me. I have no interest in the mindless ones. There are enough hungry instas here to feed your dick in hand needs. I want men/women who actually know what servitude is. Ones with a brain that can actually add to the life of thier Mistress. Someone whos conversation can flow freely from kink into non kink conversation. And for Pete’s sake someone who is not bloody boring! ...

I'm the kind of woman who always gets what she wants. I expect my men to be either alphamales, well-endowed, and successful, or chaste, generous, and dedicated. Hearing the word "no" is something I'm rarely ever told, being a woman of power. A woman of delectable looks. A woman of superior intellect. Men like you deserve to be kept on edge, struggling as much as I see fit yet thriving to succeed solely for my benefit, locked in a cage, and cuckolded as I offer myself intimately to a man leagues ...

For long term devotion, serve a Domme whose beauty, dominance and values shine both inside & out. If your admiration of Her is only at the surface level, your servitude will remain surface-level too. Find something I can train you, but I wont waste my time. I can care about you, but break a rule Il replace youI can humiliate you, but I'll always remember aftercare, I can rinse you, drain you, having you sending till you cant,  but I wont leave you with nothing. This is what it's like to be min...

After seeing so many ladies pounce subs on Twitter as well as other sites I decided to go off on my own and do some research. A poll from subs as well as a lot of talking with other Dommes who have been in the scene for more than just a few days.  It turns out that 95% of the subs I spoke to said that having a Domme pounce them after posting on there wall or feed is downright annoying. I will post a "welcome to blah blah" but that is it. After that said sub must take the action to message me....

This fantasy, is more than a fantasy but a way of life only few findom submissives can handle. giving up the ultimate control. As ith most lifestyles this is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate taboo I have done this with two of my submissives. I control how they licmve their lives day by day. What they eat, when to sleep. I'm in complete cont...

1.) You want to escape into the role of someone without so much control. 2.) You need to be given structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled. 3.) You need to have someone to take care of you and be valuable to another. 4.) To be owned makes you feel safe and free. 5.) Having a Dom in your life who is willing to push your boundaries makes you grow as a person. ...

I have been down with the Flu since Thursday morning. You know the extreme fatigue, dizziness and achy body that comes with it all. I had to reschedule appoints and ask for help (two things I hate that made me grumpier). I have spent more that one day sleeping under a mountain of blankets and the sweat streaming down my face. Needless to say NOT a pretty picture. For any dominant person asking for help makes us grumpy as hell so having to ask my husband to help me take a shower because I was ...

One of the things I love doing is exploiting your weakness. Men just can not control their urges so locking it up is the only way. For beginers a nice pink plastic cage will do. While you work, you will be in pink panties and your cage. It’s only fitting, you can’t help but enjoy the feeling of lace and the all too powerful thought of being caught in them.  It is so hard to concentrate as that cage gets tighter through out your work day. I am on your mind as you finish your work day and HOPE ...

Humiliation is a wonderful fetish and something that I enjoy as with the right submissive/slave it is cathargic for the both of us.  Have you ever considered possitivly uplifting your subs? I mean seriously giving them advice to improve their lives. Help them be a better human being so that their submission is a better value. One of the things that I do is teach my subs how to reinvest their disposable income so that it grows giving us both more income to play with. ...