Keep in mind that not all of us have the same form of etiquette when it comes to approaching us. So I will lay it out easiest for the ones looking to approach me. Address me as Madame. I want this because unlike many I have been doing this for the past 20 years. I know what I am doing and I know what I want. Experience means that I expect more from submissives wishing to serve me.  Introduce yourself. Not just the basics such as your age and country you are located. This makes sure that ...

Am I going to beg you to send? No Am I going to ask you to send? No Am I even going to demand you send? No ...

It's that time of year again! But it HAS been a hard year. So to all the kinksters out there:   Reach out to others check they are safe, comfortable and secure. Remember how lonely all of this can make you feel, let alone when you already feel lonely. ...

It’s been a hard year in the world of kink! Too many individuals have got bored in their isolation and thought they would play around in ‘our’ world and too many have just made it harder and less safe for the real kinksters to enjoy their fetishes properly. Our preferred kink (which isn’t genuinely understood by most non-FinDom kinksters) has particularly been raped to death by instas from both sides (subs and Dommes). ...

Have you ever wondered why I don't tell you all about my shitty day, or ask you to 'send to make it better'?   Well that is because I neither want nor need your pity. I am a Domme, all I need from you is your adoration, awe and obedience. I want gift upon gift and tribute upon tribute, due to my phenomenal presence and awesome aura, not my pitiful, begging, complaining, whiney existence. ...

  Reimbursements don't they leave you with a great feeling?   ...

Remember my Gods and Clods: It's okay to say NO. We are not always for everyone and not everyone is for us. We will meet dommes we like, we will meet dommes we don't and vice versa.  The dynamic will not work if we don't fully enjoy and immerse ourself into that relationship, whatever it may be. ...

Imagine feeling safe knowing you can talk through your fantasies, your likes/dislikes without being judged... Well you can. NiteFlirt is the perfect place to try out your dreams, see how they fit be more adventurous but also feel safe. Yeah you get some awkward ladies and also calls, but that is what NiteFlirt Chat is for. You get to exchange a few messages see how you fit , see how you feel. From hypnosessions to confessional to pure roleplay, who knows you may be surprised at how light a...

Reading someones profile is so important. I have had so many people on FetLife tell me lately that they have read my profile, but then not had a clue that I am financial dominatrix, or I am married or any other important things. It is all there children. Please do make an effort because if you don't, how on earth am I to take you seriously? I mean you are serious aren't you? Because I can't understand why you would even message me otherwise. I am a serious woman, being playful doesn't nega...

They may be elusive, they may be cautious and they may be slow to warm up, but when they do.... you know you are in for something spectacular! The feti-shy as I call them can be hard to track down, hard to win the trust of and you may find them lurking on and off for a very long time, but when they do take the plunge and approach... it’s beautiful. They tend to only approach on their own when they are ready and when they are certain, which makes them sincere. If you treat these precious li...

So you thought you would hang around a Dommes page for a while. You love her posts, her pictures, her style, her attitude. You don't want the pressure of approach you just want to watch her and feel part of her life right? I know I get you and do you know what? That is okay! Lurking is a very important part of our ritual, how on earth do I expect you to get a feel for me, understand me and start imagining fitting into my world, if you cant see it, get a feel for it, see what you could have...

Just incase you hadn't noticed I am a Financial Dominatrix. Yes that title is thrown around very loosely these day in the form of 'instadomming'.  When I talk about financial Domination though, I am of course talking about that amazing space between two compatible kinksters where power exchange occurs.  I am not sticking my middle finger up, whilst shouting "Fuck you, pay me". I am sat on my throne, listening to you tell me why I could possibly want your servitude. Why I should accept your...