How divine must it be to serve, to devote yourself utterly to such a phenomenal deity. Trusting her, letting her inside your mind. She crawls under every inch of your skin... pulses through every single vein....and claws at every single nerve and fibre. Beautiful, seductive, enticing. How could you resist? Better question why are you resisting? You think too much, thats why you are here. You don't want to think, you want someone to think for you, don't you? Then let me.... ....Let me do al...

For the last few days, I have had a lot of submissives approaching for debt games.  I wanted to be clear that my games are not always as easy as you make think. I will deliberately add twists that are agreed ahead of time to add suspension and anticipation to my games. What I enjoy the most is a damn good laugh in this kinky world and a creative spirit.  Here are my rules: First off introduce yourself. Take the time to tell me: ...

I had a bad habit of taking it too personally when I thought there was a line of healthy communication and a sub would flake without a word. Not because of the money, money can always be made. There's always another sub dying to take that place. But because it’s rude, it made me angry.   I’ve come to realize though over the years, past that cliché “it’s their loss” mentality - why am I expending my precious emotions on another person who just proved they’re unworthy of them in the first pl...

Oh Sweeties what did I tell you boring subs aren’t worth anyone’s time or any amount of money! When you step into a Dommes DM’s you need to understand you are here to entertain them! If you have anything other than that on your agenda why are you here? You are clearly not a submissive of any kind. So let's maybe just call you a charlatan! Lol   But on a serious note, remember to not let me deceive you. When you approach me, anything I do is a test. Every single thing so be on your guard. I...

See I don’t really like having 'paypigs/piggies’ it insinuates that they are lazy trough dwelling pork scratchings. No I would rather have ‘paypuppies’ Far more impressive, adoring, excitable, eager and ridiculously loyal.  When I leave you to go about my day, you will sit and pine waiting for me, fighting the frustrating compulsion to lick me and mount my legs, and why wouldn’t you? That's how I like it. It’s a painful burden I will never have to bear because I am with me all day long. So...

Well, as I'm sure the majority of us can agree 2020 has been pretty.. well.. shit. I want to say before I continue I know many of us dommes and subs have been affected by covid-19 and if anyone wishes to talk to me privately I am here for you. As for me.. well where do I begin?! This year has unfortunately been the worst year of my life. I've lost my grandfather (surprisingly not due to covid!) and the hardest of all, I've lost my family. My parents split early this year and up to that point th...

Submissives, I am a very busy woman. I do not like wasting my precious time. There are only so many hours in a day. I invest my time in activities that make me happy and prosperous.  I am not only am a Financial Dominatrix.  I run four other businesses from my home. I am fortunate that my work does not take up all of my time. This allows me time to chat often. I do multitask while I am in chat. There will be times, I am called away. My paying clients and submissives have priority. ...

MORE on My blog at Mistress Kiara's Dungeon - CLICK HERE! September is here, which means that fall has finally begun! And so far, things seem to be falling just the way I like them to… >:) 5K on Twitter ...

I often get asked what advice I have for people starting out in Findom. I have a few. They are quite simple. Be Yourself. Do not fake who you are. It takes too much work to put up a front. Eventually, you will slip up. Why exert the effort? You are someone's "cup of tea" just like you are. ...

”A spider’s web is stronger than it looks. Although it is made of thin, delicate strands, the web is not easily broken.” - EB WHITE [Charlotte’s Web] I returned from my hiatus profoundly more confident - I knew rejoining the community would prove to be substantial and purposeful. Not only for me as an individual, but for my life. I felt like I was going back to my home of sorts, my comfort zone; where I thrive and feel eager for better things. Upon my resurrection to fetish work, I found that...

Over the years I think this comes up so often that it is about time we talk about it.    Whale: ...