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by on February 15, 2020
Happy Valentine's Day, pets! It's time for some sexy updates. And these are EXTRA big updates too... New Piercing ...
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by on February 4, 2020
Hey there, Findoms! Been a while. Far too long, actually, and I've been antsy, all caught up in RL business without time to play. But I've been thinking about My relationship with men, and how findom/being a Domme in general has helped Me sort out My feelings in regards to the opposite sex.   I'm a bisexual woman. I don't make it a secret. If you object to that, we have nothing to say to each other, because I'm confident in My identity, and I know there are plenty of subs out there who und...
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by on January 28, 2020
Full blog & free clip available on My website! Click Here Now! Difficulties… Remember when I was like, “2020 is gonna be My year!”? Well, things haven’t quite started out according to plan… First, I was sick for New Years and was really worried that I wouldn’t be able to make it to My planned tattoo appointment on the 7th. Luckily, I was feeling better by the 6th, but when I messaged doughboy to schedule our cash meet so that he could pay Me for the tattoo, he was feeling sick. he still go...
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by on January 9, 2020
What could she possibly be talking about? Come a little closer and I'll tell you. Take care of yourselves- by that I mean logging off social media when enough is enough. Take time to spend with your friends and family. Put the devices away. They will be there when you come back. The subs that TRULY want to serve you and put your happiness first will wait for you. Not the other way around. Make them wait on you hand and foot. You're the Domme. Serving you and being in your presence should be a co...
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by on January 2, 2020
Read the Full Blog Post on My Website - Click Here! Happy New Year! I hope the ending of 2019 was great, and that 2020 brings everything you could hope for! My new year itself wasn’t super great – I’m actually fighting an upper respiratory infection. But I’m determined to keep updating, keep releasing new content, and just keep improving in general! ...
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by on December 19, 2019
afindommesdiary.com A Tribute A Day Keeps The Timewasters Away? Any Findomme has probably received many DM's from submissives wanting to talk, yet not wanting to tribute first. They might say 'oh I have been scammed before so I just want to chat first.' or they might not say anything at all and they will just keep talking. However, when you see these 'submissives' they almost always expect verification from a Findomme. Most Findommes offer various forms of verification. However, why can th...
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by on December 14, 2019
So... as it turns out, I talk a lot in person, but online it is clearly a lot for me to do! I'm currently traveling across the Americas with husband (also a Dom) and we're having a ball! Just no time for play, or anywhere we can go for social meets/munches and have some fun. Gutted we didn't bring any of our toys... All has to be done online.  I miss the Findom aspect of it, as I got heavily into the Lifestyle thing a while back. Financial domination didn't rank high enough on my kinks. Bu...
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by on December 8, 2019
I keep seeing so many dominants hit the scene and the first thing they say is "Tribute before you speak". So sure that will happen for a small amount of time. New submissives will message without doing much research thinking this is the only way to do so. Then sub or Domme screams "Timewaster or fake" because they don't see eye to eye in the first 5 minutes. We have all seen it. We all know it has happened. It is a clear indicator that things need to change. For the new Domme reading this:...
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by on November 23, 2019
"Sit dear and make yourself comfortable while I mold and play with your mind. It could be a wild ride. Are you ready?" *snaps fingers* Your body automatically obeys as this isn't the first time I have played with your mind today. I have already put ideas and seeds of thought in your head all day. Sending messages about my daily life.  ...
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by on November 22, 2019
This what a question that was asked of me in an interview a few hours ago. I will tell you just like I told them today and this is my opinion. "I chose to set my own path. I chose to be the best me I could possibly be. What makes me different is ME." The interviewer laughed for a minute until he realized I was serious. "What do you mean?" ...
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by on November 2, 2019
Note that this was taken straight from my blog on both Hepays and my Website. It annoys me to some extent that my online posts seem to come off to some subs that I am only interested in the extreme financial domination dynamic. So in this blog I am going to try and break it down a little to explain a few things. ...
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by on October 26, 2019
I am an avid practitioner of the Law of Attraction. I firmly believe that you have a hand in creating your best life through visualization and inspired action. I’m currently working on a book that explains teaches anyone to lift their vibration and manifest abundance. However, the exercise I want to talk about today will not be included in that book. It is a little taboo and I would rather give this gift to my Domme sisters. It is our divine secret. It is a form of sex magic and with Halloween c...
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