I understand that this is a FinDom-specific site, but do you ever have FinSubs who also love to serve in your home? I wrote this to a fellow Domme and then revised it to be published on FetLife. I'm interested to hear your thoughts.  Training a new slave of any kind is not easy work. However, when you're allowing someone from the internet whom you don't know well (or at all) into your home to be around all of your favorite people, pets, and things... you need to be especially meticulous. It...

As I bounced down My apartment steps to greet My new financial submissive for the first time, My heart fluttered ever so slightly. The man waiting at My door was almost as tall as I am, with salt-and-peppered hair and a tight, black All Saints tee accentuating his muscular frame. I could have sworn I met him on FetLife, not Seeking... but as soon as he opened his mouth to greet Me in his delicious Irish accent, I knew he understood his place. FetLife is primarily where I find My most loyal an...

Here is a bit of background on me. Female, 25, Mistress/Dominatrix/Findom Personal interests: ...

I hear a lot of people outside of this kink referring to Findom as "money for nothing".  And judging by the way that some of you ungrateful and disrespectful subs waste our time with non-existent or pitiful sends, some of you seem to think so, too.  Dominating someone is understanding how to draw someone willingly into your web, just so you can devour them. ...

My day job is at a strip club. I love dancing. It also gives me a chance to double hustle. A chance to make cold hard cash and drain bank accounts at the same time. All money looks better being possessed by Goddesses. 

As a FinDom and FemDom veteran for over five years, I have very little patience for cheap, manipulative bitch boys. I've had plenty of experiences with worms making pathetic attempts to top from the bottom; but this is never in their best interest. Be forewarned -- you will regret challenging Me.  I am Mistress Monique, The Violent Divine. With the face of a Goddess and the body of a supermodel, shielding a heart that Marquis de Sade would revere, you will come to Me bowed and begging to serv...

After much thought on the subject, I don't believe that it is even possible to have a true female-led relationship if money does not exchange hands.  Men have always used money as a tool to control women. Whether it is by politicians designating women as the property of husbands and fathers, unable to own their own valuable resources, or by the abusive husband using money as leverage to make his wife stay, this is just a fact.  It is incredibly important to correct this imbalance to achiev...

And in our society, money is power.  That is why we do this.  Men do not deserve power, especially a beta like you. Who deserves power?  I do. All women do.  ...

I love pencil skirts. They make me look so cute and sophisticated. However, they are frustrating. So imagine: I'm in a pencil skirt and everytime I get annoyed because I cant take a full step you use my cash app to make me less annoyed. Win-win Also I would love to do a PP with someone in a toggle. And everytime I get mad at these petite steps i have to take I smack you with a paddle. Also win-win 😘 I enjoy taking my anger out on Submissive men. 

You know that this has always been your true place, groveling at my feet, desperate for me to bless your pathetic life with my holy presence.  You know that you have always belonged to me - you have wished and prayed for a superior Goddess to come and take control of your existence, to give you direction and guidance.  You have yearned for some sense of purpose, someone to serve, someone to worship and confess your sins to.  ...