I recently started a poll on #findom twitter asking others opinions on "loving" your Dom or sub. I was surprised to see the difference in responses for that poll. One of the responses was "falling in love is setting yourself up for heartbreak" ...

Sometimes, it's hard to imagine that a Domme can have actual emotion and empathy deep down in their sadistic twisted hearts. But... We do. Findommes are so often painted as money-hungry whores. So very few know the true meaning and the exhilaration for the parties involved. When you're not involved in it, it's easy to look into our looking glass and think we are heartless and cruel. But... We care. We gain emotional attachments to our subs. We care about your lives at home and work, the fa...