Biggest time wasters are actually us dommes. It's up to you how much of your free time you give to a approaching sub. You let him in, so you decide for how long he has access to you without payment.  Also you decide how much of your time he actually gets once he pays. If he sends you coffee money equivalent to $5-10 then you should probably not give him more than a acknowledgement that you received it.  ...

As Valentine's Day approaches there must be many subs who have planned out grand tributes for the Dommes in their life, getting all excited and hoping it can provide a moment for their Domme in which Her thoughts are focused on Her subby if only for a moment. Had the tribute been the right one? What about the non financial tributes like poems, words, or thoughtful acts which a Domme may cherish, or indeed the humiliations and amusement he has strived to provide to hear his Lady giggle. Will She ...

I will never understand bait posts. I'm sure a lot are scams but the thought process is still odd. It is a sub's job to reach out to the domme. Dommes do not go begging for subs. You are on a website to find content/dommes and asking "Are any dommes available for....". Yes! Look around. That's like going to a mall and screaming " Do any of these stores sell clothes?" And expecting someone to come running out of all of the stores and scream " Hey!!!! We do!". You are the shopper and we are th...

I occasionally get messages and friend requests from dommes although my profile, header page, icon, and so forth are clear on my status, Owned! For brand new dommes, I can chalk it up to inexperience. Perhaps they are not familiar with domme etiquette.  And maybe the message will sink in as a new domme has her subs approached by other dommes. For the few experienced dommes that approach me, they know better or should know better. I will leave it up to our hostesses if they should be banned...

As long as I can remember I have used my inner power of quiet sublime dominance to get what I want out of life. What brought me into the world of findom, wasn’t the slew if instas online or anything online for that matter. It started with my real life interactions with weak men. I realized I could harness my power to get whatever I want from them, without much words spoken, without any reciprocation from me. ...