After a very long week and month.  Because Mercury finally is straight (yes I'm a DOMME who likes astrology and astronomy) the better way to unwind is to play with some subs.    ...

I have become convinced that everyone falls somewhere on what I call a Dominance/submission continuum. Most of society falls close to the middle while those of us in the M/s and D/s communities are outliers falling closer to the Dominance or submissive ends of the spectrum. Despite this reality, our society teaches all of its males that they are "are kings" and need not submit to anyone. This teaching is reinforced by family, schools, churches and other organizations with which we deal with on a...

For long term devotion, serve a Domme whose beauty, dominance and values shine both inside & out. If your admiration of Her is only at the surface level, your servitude will remain surface-level too. Find something I can train you, but I wont waste my time. I can care about you, but break a rule Il replace youI can humiliate you, but I'll always remember aftercare, I can rinse you, drain you, having you sending till you cant,  but I wont leave you with nothing. This is what it's like to be min...

This fantasy, is more than a fantasy but a way of life only few findom submissives can handle. giving up the ultimate control. As ith most lifestyles this is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate taboo I have done this with two of my submissives. I control how they licmve their lives day by day. What they eat, when to sleep. I'm in complete cont...

1.) You want to escape into the role of someone without so much control. 2.) You need to be given structure and rules in order to feel fulfilled. 3.) You need to have someone to take care of you and be valuable to another. 4.) To be owned makes you feel safe and free. 5.) Having a Dom in your life who is willing to push your boundaries makes you grow as a person. ...

It is that time of year again. Goddess Belle Darlin and I are packing for DomCon in NOLA. This will be our second year in attendance and we look forward to seeing old friends and making new ones. We look forward to seeing Dommes and subs from this website. Let one of us know you are attending.   This year we will have a larger entourage than last. This meant different accommodations than last year. We have decided to stay at a B&B offsite. ...

You are new to this kink. You are so excited. Look at all the wonderful Dommes and subs available. You are in heaven. What do you do? How do you start your first Domme/sub relationship? What should you expect from it? There is no set rulebook for a Domme/sub relationship any more than for any relationships. All are different.  ...

I asked one sub to summarise his experience with me so far. I think this is beautiful. Thank you puppy. "The One 33 years old. A long, long standing interest in kink and submission. An active participant, in one form or another, in the lifestyle since my early twenties. Lots of experiences, some bad, some good. A lingering arrogance perhaps, to think to myself that I had truly lived this, lived this lifestyle and truly understood it, enjoyed it, experienced it. ...

  I've always admired Dante Alighieri's mind. His descriptions of Hell are terrifying but amazing at the same time. They got me thinking of the way simple words can manipulate men’s minds and feelings. That's basically what dommes do. So I've thought I want to be Dante today. I want to give you a tour through Hell. ...

Personally, I don't believe in astrology or the zodiac. At times it can be amusing, but mostly I ignore it. All zodiac signs have their stereotypes. Geminis seem to be characterized as backstabbing bitches or literal twins. I am not two-faced or a gossip. What I am is someone with a talent seeing things from different perspectives. Someone who can approach issues from multiple angles. I often play conflicting roles; leader and follower, optimist and pessimist. I have this Gemini duality insid...