A TickTock video does not miraculously turn you into a Domme, nor does a YouTube video. It takes lots of training. I am currently taking Shabari classes. The reason I am learning from a seasoned instructor, versus just watching videos online or reading a book, I want to make sure I learn how to play properly. I want to know what can cause pleasure, pain, and damage. I want to tie safely. Safety is the reason you should seek proper training. There are so many aspects in a dominant scenario t...