Do no harm to oneself or other! When people come to the BDSM world they are here for experience pleasure or something that makes them happy, this is the reason for rule number one. Let me explain. There is a big difference between hurt and harm.  Hurt is temporary, such as a bee sting or the sting of a crop. Harm is long lasting or permanent, like the loss of a limb, despair, PTSD, emotional wounds.  No one is perfect and accidents happen so make sure you are prepared for it. As a Dominant...